Two things I was told after my last really bad break up was "don't give her to much credit"(for how things ended) and she herself told me "Get over yourself".
Both good advice. I mean as human beings we have to take responsibility for our side of the street, because we can't control anything...
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was in the marines for 3 years. Become and officer. The chair force pays the best, best chow hall's, best gyms.
Pick an mos that will be useful after you get out. Logistics. Aircraft maintenance ( if you choose not to be an officer).
You're age is fine. Especially if you don't go marines...
Yeah that's the wrong way to do it. You have to help them out of their rut by teaching them to help themselves not enable them to continue being degenerates.
But when have they been any more than a minor annoyance to you? Maybe you should learn to not take things so personally and have some empathy. Being so fvcked and not having many options to get yourself out of the hole you're in can affect your mental health. They didn't do anything that bad to you.
They'll find a way trust me. Some of the guys get a social security check and when they get it they stay at a cheap motel, get hookers, do drugs and alcohol until they are broke and then go back to the shelter. But this isn't all of them. Some just either got fvcked over or made mistakes. Many...
It's funny because one of my co workers claimed she was sexually harassed by her last manager (she transferred from another store). But she just looks kind of shell shocked you know looks rough. She's one of biggest complainers also. I always tell her "it's not that bad, this job is easy"...
Here their are certain shelters that have resources to get employment, go to school and other stuff. It should be all about helping them fix their lives and get back on their feet. That shelter also did drug tests and breathalyzers.
The honey moon stage is over. This imo is the most likely reason. I suggest that you find interesting things to do and not make her such a priority.
The last thing you want to do is give her even more attention and focus. Give her less but because your focus is on other things like improving...
That's a bit extreme. I was homeless for a while. Maybe we need a place for them to go and a way to help better themselves along with some hope.
Sure a lot of them are *******s. But many are just having a hard time and literally have no way in sight to change their life.
Not a big mistake. It's only one woman. But you seem to care to much and you're showing it. Now she sees it and trust me, you showed to much vulnerability to soon.
But you can always recover as long as you can not care so much. I'd suggest not seeing her for a while and work on other women so...
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