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Hello, I am looking to get a weight bench and some weights for my place. It's hard for me to get to a gym, plus it can be expensive, and I'm wondering if this could be a viable option. I'm not looking to get huge but I'd like to gain some muscle (which has proven difficult as it seems I'm what...

It was about 2 and a half hours into the evening. It seemed towards the end of the date and I was walking her in the direction of home. I put my arm around her as we were walking and pulled her close which she seemed to like. We walked like this for a bit before I made a move. It seemed like the...

Met up with a girl from ok cupid tonight. Me 41, she 39. We had a good time talking about our lives. Seemed to be the right moment as we were walking down an alleyway after having drinks. I put my arm around her as we were walking (which seemed to be well received) and then stopped to give her a...

I've been thinking a lot about how signals, vibes, whatever you want to call it, radiate from a person naturally and even invisibly, or subconsciously. These are ways we may not even be aware of or science have a name for. I know it sounds kind of new age but a state of being seems to have much...

Been dating off and on a great girl for sometime now. Kind, attractive, similar values, very good to me. Thing is, she has had a lot of things go on in her past. She has been in therapy, getting support, and I really admire how she is confronting her issues rather than running away from them...

Sorry, let me try to add some clarity. When the woman I've been dating and I are in relationship mode, I tend to think of other women. But when we are no longer seeing each other, I don't seem to want to pursue other women. It's almost like a switch flips. I don't know what to make of it but it...

It seems I want to pursue other women when she and I are in the mode of hanging out but lose interest in it when we are not. Has anyone encountered this too? Any insights on what it might mean? Thanks for any thoughts.

Couldn’t talk to her yesterday so had to call this morning. Light talk for a minute. She said she had wondered if she had actually given her number to me after all. Then more light talk for a minute or so. I suggested hanging out tonight and she said she actually had a rehearsal to go to and...

So here's the deal. She's a bartender. I had seen her at the bar before and we flirted, held a couple long looks. Last night, we closed down the place together and were going to go dancing but time got away from us. So, it really wasn't a regular date at all as she just happened to be working...

Ended up walking a woman home with whom I'd had some chemistry. We weren't really on a date and our hanging out that night happened spontaneously but went for the kiss, denied. However, she says really nicely: sorry, and that she's really glad I tried but just needs to know me better sort of...