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Yeah that's what I'm thinking too. At least if I'm approaching them and they ultimately reject me I get something out of it--a possibly interesting conversation and forcing myself to get out of my comfort zone. Sitting in the house just swiping and swiping for hours seems boring and a waste...

Any chance for an average looking or slightly above average looking guy to meet hot girls on Tinder or similar apps? I'm assuming cold approach is the only chance I have to get with a HOT girl. Has anyone had luck on Tinder with really attractive women? For reference, I'm in a small to medium...

Makes sense, that's about what I was thinking.

Possibly if you were approaching a bunch of women right in front of security and not leaving them alone when they say no. But you were saying you could actually get arrested just from introducing yourself to women. That's ridiculous. Obviously you gotta know when to leave, if they're...

Using one picture to draw a conclusion about an entire group of people is never a very smart idea. But is there any reason to suspect soldiers would be better with women than the average guy? Why would they be?

How could you get arrested for telling a woman you think she's attractive and asking for her number then leaving if she's not interested? What is the crime? If anyone actually ever got arrested for approaching, my bet is that he either grabbed a girl or followed her for a long time and wouldn't...

Good point. And it's not 97 percent of guys who don't have the balls, it's more like 99.7 percent.

No she was hotter than the one who ran away

Like I said before, a big reason why I'm doing cold approach is to get over my social anxiety issues and fear of awkwardness that have been holding me back in life in general for way too long. So if that means "pounding the pavement" I guess I'll have to keep doing that lol. Also being like a 6...

I'm willing to do it even though the odds aren't great. It's helping social anxiety too. I have had major social anxiety and worries about expressing myself due to childhood trauma dealing with a mom who had extreme anger issues and so now I'm just forcing myself to do this and gradually the...

My theory is maybe it's a way to get with a hot girl, since online dating is strictly a looks game, whereas in person, you might get a couple points just for having the balls to introduce yourself

Yeah makes sense. Like I said, I'm better at having interesting convos with girls who are solo and stationary. Trying to approach groups walking on the street too, but it's super awkward, or feels that way sometimes

Yeah, he's a self-proclaimed drunk who runs around talking to girls in a high-pitched voice, slurring his words, and he's trying to sell "coaching" and books to guys on how to get laid when he doesn't provide any evidence that he's successful at anything he does. He's entertaining and funny...

They aren't generally treating me like a 5 or less. It happened a couple times on the street when I was acting indirect and awkward as fvck. I chased down two girls at a cross walk at a red light just now and introduced myself and told the closest one I thought she was attractive, and asked her...

I'd say I'm around a 6 looks wise at least. And no I'm not gonna post a picture, IDGAF what some random anonymous guys think I look like

Yeah I know, but I was talking about a girl walking by on the street or something, in that case, the window of opportunity is only about 3 seconds. I find I do better when I give myself some time when the girl is not moving.

Yeah you're probably right. My issue is that it's hard for me to approach when I only have seconds to do it. I guess that's the opposite problem most guys have (like the opposite of the '3 second rule'). If i see a girl sitting or standing still and have like a minute to think about it, lately I...

Yeah I like that interaction too but I don't think I could come up with all that sh1t to say lol. Guess I just gotta practice more. Hard when I live in a city that's not very big.

Idk what to think of that video. The guy admitted he was really drunk and was slurring his words. Also had basically no luck with any of the girls and the one who went home with him was probably staged. Still I guess I could try to give compliments like he did and see if they go anywhere.