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Oh my god you have A LOT to catch up on. The easiest way would be for you to check the link in my signature, but I'll summarize a few things here. No matter what anyone says, the basis of seduction is kino escalation. This is one thing you must master no matter what if you want to be a seducer...

People complain about their height and weight on here? Where? Am I just subconsciously selectively ignoring such posts because I expect a PUA-adjacent forum to not have such content?

Sounds like the biggest problem might be that you're caring too much about what other people think of you.

Oh dang I'll look into this further, thank you

Sounds like a study I'd be interested in reading. Let me know if you ever find it again.

No, a "miser" is totally a Scrooge. I agree with the main point of this thread, though. You know what's better and more attractive than complaining and failing? Adapting and succeeding.

I think video game addiction is causing a lot of boys and men to become less masculine, and makes them want to put less and less effort into dating, even if they were naturally more inclined to be masculine originally. Video game addiction has become a lot more prevalent with improvements in...

Planet Fitness has a terrible reputation and lacks some basic equipment, but it's cheap and you can still get swole if you know what you're doing. When I was at my physique peak I was a Planet Fitness member.

If you're asking because you're trying to optimize your perception of status in the eyes of women, you also need to consider socioeconomic class. Lower middle class women and upper old money women are going to have wildly different perceptions and awarenesses of brands. If you want to niche...

Complete failure? Not necessarily. Theoretically, a man who is naturally more feminine and a woman who is naturally more masculine could end up in a very successful long term relationship together. Same goes for any combination of genders where one person is more masculine and the other is more...

How did I know it was going to be you when I saw this thread title? lol There are many universal aspects of masculinity that are expressed in the same ways no matter where you are in the world. Being muscular will always be seen as masculine in any country, for example, and there isn't a single...

WPI powder and a f*ckton of eggs. Hitting them protein macros is what's most important. Everything else is just a drop in the bucket if natty. I do take omega-3 supps, though. Scientific studies suggest they help regardless of what that other guy said about it.

Good thing there are plenty of sweet and kind women who can make your life heaven

I, too, have been in toxic relationships with sh!tty people. Took me way to long to accept how sh!tty they were because the sex was so good or they were so hot. Experience is a good teacher. It helps to review the list of narcissism symptoms every now and again. Hope you get out of this a...

You're bullsh!tting yourself. It's not that you didn't "see the point" in escalating. You were too scared to do it. You were scared that you would get rejected or that things might end up messy. This is related to your previous experience with alcohol and your current experience with sobriety...

PUAs call that "Natural Game." There's still a method to it.

When I joined this forum 20 years ago, sh!t was really different. The men here were talking about getting girls and being seducers and lovers. Like Don Juan DeMarco. Like the character played by Johnny Depp in the movie. The population here today seems really different, though. The general...

Making money. I spent my entire life obsessed with women, seduction, dating, relationships, etc. but neglected so many other things, chiefly financial stuff. So now I can get laid whenever I want, I always have love in my life, and I'm never lonely, but I'm constantly poor as sh!t. Working on...

GFTOW stands for Go **** Ten Other Women. It's an old PUA term. Here is an excerpt from my book, Never Lonely, that explains those concepts:

The classic cure for oneitis is GFTOW