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Update: For anyone who is just reading this thread, I friendzoned this girl long ago and am dating (read as f-ing) others. The first post in the thread will provide further context. So, the girl invited me over for drinks again. I had nothing on the books, so I went over and took a few beers...

@LARaiders85 I know that she knows exactly what she is doing. I'm counting on it. I'm also not that easily sucked in anymore and she is the one that has hoops to jump through, not me (famous last words haha).

Took a girl out on a first date last Saturday ( yes, worth the Saturday). She is the type that runs every morning and hits the gym five days a week. Tight body, a very cute face and bright blue eyes. Pure German. I met her at a place that I had never been to, but heard was good. She arrived...

Well, I must say that this thread being drug up from the deep (2.5 years) certainly proves to me what time can do. She is just a distant memory at this point, fuzzy and one dimensional. Kind of like a good movie with a terrible ending that you remember. My review: ZERO interest in ever seeing...

I'm with @lamath and @LARaiders85 on this and get the same variety of women. It certainly can make you unsure of your league. Aside from your number, everyone in both sexes seems to have a "type". I couldn't count the number of times that I have commented to a friend about a looker and they...

@Black Widow Void We have been doing this long enough that we have become accustomed to it and maybe the threat of change scares her. Through 2 guys, attention has never wavered, but I will have to be cautious. This kind of thing can sneak up on you. Thanks. @logicallefty As far as needs...

One of my girls who I have known for a bit, but not pursued since relationship gaps have never aligned. I kind of put her in the friendzone. Even with that, she has always flirted with me and we do go out together, have beers, play pool. Its occasional dating without the sex and she picks up the...

I had a bit of a Coke habit in my early 20's. You may have great sex, but leave it there. I was giving a ride to my friends girl of 3 years. She looked at me and said. I'll suck your D*ck if you can get some coke. She wasn't kidding. I said no and dropped her off. I decided that I wanted out...

There are far better resources than sosuave for the info that you seek. That is unless we happen to have a fertility doctor in our ranks. Google it. It varies, but mid 30s. Things get worse with time. Sure, there is an increase of the possibility of problems, but I don't think that happens until...

There are too many "whens" to list here. Why would you cut off either of them? #1 sounds fine and #2 it sounds like you may have a shot at sex. If you are too busy for two, either see if you can lay #2, then decide.

I have been working on this one girl that I run into here and there and went ahead and called her for a date. She said she had something planned, but would cancel. Apparently one of her orbiters was meeting her somewhere. Quote: "I already have plans with my friend John for dinner, but I can...

It depends on the content. If its a "I can't wait to get my hands on you" type of thing, game on. If its "I went to the mall and you should see the deal that I got on a nice purse".. Not so much.

Timely post! Thanks. I don't text continuously. Sometimes a few times in a day, sometimes not for multiple days. I was thinking to myself two weeks or so ago to completely stop putting in any extra effort at all in texts, if its not flowing to where I sense effort on her part. Then, I rethought...

I think that almost everyone reaches that point eventually. I know that I have anyway. Why not suggest the sucking and swallowing? Who says the spice only has to be for her? She may end up loving it and she can keep her sexy outfit on. Win, win. Other than that, as already suggested, mix it up...

I have had success and failure using both approaches. I have found that measured engagement works best for me. I just have fun with it, neg her and challenge her. I just don't send boring stuff just to keep a conversation going. If I feel it dying or want to leave her at I high spot, I just sign...

I know a few who claim to enjoy lesbian porn, but at the same time, say that they have no interest in doing it themselves. I'm willing to bet that with the right girl and situation, they would dive right in.

I don't ignore, but I also don't make effort to expand the conversation. I have done this before and I just treat her just the same as I would if the person next to me wasn't dating material.

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Thinking back, I have done this quite a few times. In most cases, I fell back on "When in doubt, do nothing" More times than not, it was the right way to go. This thread makes me think of George!

Mysterious only goes so far and it is nerly impossible to have a conversation of any depth unless you reveal some things about yourself. If what you're doing works, why even bother to explore other tactics that aren't the genuine you?