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Feel your way through life as opposed to thinking your way through. No this does not mean wear your heart on your sleeve and hope you meet your soul mate. It just means if you 'feel' something is off about someone then you keep an arms length distance from them if you must.. otherwise bail!

I struggle to view OLD as anything other than a hunting ground for disordered and dysfunctional people so with that in mind... i no longer do it.. but each to their own..

Cluster B Personality disorders often overlap with one another. BPD isn't necessarily the most extreme of the disorders but it can be the most dramatic in the sense where they tend to operate by how they feel at that time. These feelings can change within hours/days and so can their actions ie...

The best way i can describe sex with a Cluster B is that it is the closest you will ever come to ever having sex with yourself. Want to fuk like a pornstar? No problem! She is already wearing those crotchless panties you love and she has bought her bag of toys... Want to rock back and forth...

Yeah i hear ya. I guess that is called 'cold' empathy. Like how a wolf hunting down an injured rabbit needs to know how the rabbit feels in order to track it down by working out which direction it took off in. Funnily enough my mom shares the same trait.

Especially when she randomly reiterates that she is both Empathetic and Emotionally Intelligent during what seems every time you see her.... like "No dear...being a sociopathic ***** is not being Empathetic or Emotionally Intelligent... it is you just being a Manipulative ***** that always has...

Back when i was trying to figure my BPD/Covert NPD out, all i had was Loveshack for advice on relationships although i never actually signed up or posted. No wonder i ended up in the mess i did Ha. It wasn't until 5 or 6 weeks that after i walked away that i had my 'light bulb moment'. Spending...

Because it's where i found my BPD and looking back most girls i dated from there had solid traits.

Unfortunately there will always be someone to put out their fires.

Raising awareness is the only way to help other guys avoid BPD's and the havoc they wreak. The guy in question isn't a "retard". He is most likely carrying around a whole heap of emotional baggage that this girl saw and latched onto. It is all too easy to simply state that you should never...

Once you have attained a level of true intimacy with yourself then you will be able to share true intimacy with others without concern over things like rejection, abandonment etc. You will always have you so you had better get to work on developing a relationship with yourself if you haven't...

"You should totally turn up unannounced at that girls house that you kissed that one time. She will love the surprise!" Almost got myself a restraining order lol. Oh to be 14 again...

Happened to me! I lost 2 stone in 2 months after losing my appetite. My skin turned grey and I felt completely empty. I don't see anything "LMAO" about it!

My only dream in this life of mine is that every Man, Woman and Beast becomes educated on all that is possible of the perils a Cluster B can bring into ones own life. I am in touch with Codependants anonymous and hopefully may even have some of my own written work printed and published as part...

love bombing at its finest. She hasn't changed, she has just 'recycled' you or is at least trying to and using your Son as an emotional weapon of sorts because she knows how much you love him. If you don't assert firm boundaries now then i fear she will use him against you once more and not in...

Hit-men don't cost 75k....... just sayin

Why the hell are you dating this chick!?? And please don't say because of the sweet pu$$y...

Scratch that.... Got laid last night. God bless work xmas parties!

I haven't dated for a while as I needed to work through the aftermath of my NPD/BPD dynamic that almost pushed me over the edge. Finding the Redpill has helped me have a clear head with regard to women. My 'game' was always strong and I never had any trouble getting women so to speak it was...