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dawg not everything is a shi.t test.. i feel like you might just be lookin too into a little comment she made breh. why are u worried about whether she is testing you? you should be imagining what you plan to do to her when u guys actually get together

I feel what you're saying you're just arguing a point i never made .. its like you put your own topic out there and started discussing it as if i was on the other end of it. I'm sure its relative to this convo but I don't think anyones on the others side of it I don't look at it that black and...

One of my plates was over, regular sh.t -- was having a hard time getting her to leave but I didn't really care since I didn't mind the company - plus was going to have friends over later. Plate tells me I got a text.. I'm thinking its work/business related so I go and grab my phone and sit...

I don't think you understand what SIMP means. Being the guy who can have sex without becoming emotionally attached to a woman just because she has sex with you is the COMPLETE OPPOSITE of being a SIMP. I mean I fw one or two of your posts/comments on here but in this thread, you haven't been...

You don't try to be a DJ. You either are heading into that route or you're not. Being a player is not for everyone-- and tahts just the facts. More men than ever are more prone to acting like women these days when it comes to dating and its blatantly obvious. If you're in your 30's and you are...

Nah that's not the point of this thread. Last time I'm saying this-- This thread is about dude's who attach emotions to sex and expect women to have a connection w th them just because they have had sex-- and feel like the woman is obligated to them in some way or another. I think you're either...

No offense but you're still not getting the point of this thread.. Unless you're defending the notion that sex should come with more than pleasure, should always be attached with emotions, obligations, etc.. Listen no woman is obligated to you just because she has sex with you. I'm sure you get...

We are all programmed by different things, whether our family, our parents, our society, our culture, our religious sect, to be limited in what we think is possible and achievable for us--- and that goes for ALL areas of life. I think as a man its important to be able to deprogram ourselves...

I think that's a bit black and white/extreme with all due respect to your woman. Simply put, you're not going to develop deeper emotions for just any person you have sex with, and certainly not for all of them. If you do, then maybe you're missing something within yourself that you're looking...

Smh.. You dudes really base your own experiences as if they were the ultimate truth. MIllions of people have friends that are of the opposite sex. You socially unhealthy dudes just really live a self loathing, alternate reality and try to project it out on everyone. The second part of what you...

I would say its pretty obvious -- the more people in a place, the easier it is to meet them.

You totally missed the point of this thread.. Which was basically saying a bunch of dudes attach a lot more to sex than what it is.. and while sex does become a thing about power and ego for a lot of people, that can happen regardless of how many times you have sex.. sex is always about pleasure...

I think that's an important point to delve into.. I honestly can't say whether I know too much about that angle but I would believe that those of us who had sex earlier tend to mature earlier and be able to separate sex from all the other attachments like emotions and obligations than those of...

nah man not too much more than men. some girls are dumb as sht and later have to reflect on it like "wht did he mean by that when he did that thing or said that thing the other day".. then they go and ask their girls its just that when **** is said outright and bluntly, its just not as...

I'm starting to realize a major problem a lot of men are having is that they see sex with a woman as something more than just a fun and pleasurable activity. To them, it's like they think sex equates to a girl being obligated to you in some ways , (and to be fair, I was the same way in my...

I feel ya man.. I had no trouble understanding it, so I'll explain it to you. He was talking about a relationship with his girlfriend, where she ended up being kinda toxic and ended up cheating on him, and another gf who shared similar traits.. They started off as FWB's.. so hence why he is...

I think the reason you don't get this thread is because you might not have encountered that crazy ass relationship that seemingly so many men have encountered at least once. It's your typical toxic relationship/manipulative girl -- Since he's learned his lesson, he's trying to give some tips to...

I agree about that. It's tough man it can be cringey but at the end of the day.. We all lead different lives and nothing really surprises me anymore lol

At the end of the day.. This is a better quote I believe: Women are gentle.<--- it took me a while to realize this.. but its the truth. women will act out, do all type of crazy things when they are hurt or severely damaged... but, the nature of a woman is gentle and delicate. Once you loose...

Hey man thanks for sharing this .. Its always a good reminder. I'm happy I got from a place of dealing with relationships and settling for sh.t like that, and to a place of healthy sexual relationships. I think that's the goal for most men out there. To have multiple women they can sleepw tih...