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Thanks Mr. Divorced with four kids. That’s some strong frame you got there!

So I can think like you and marry crazy women and have a bunch of kids with them? Yeah thanks but no thanks those are the kinds of experiences the rest of us should try to avoid getting into in the first place.

Yes I have had experiences with toxic women almost every man has that’s why I’m here to help others avoid it.. but unlike you I was smart enough not to get married and have kids with them. Your own situation and stubbornness stand as a great big warning to all.

How do you know she’s not? It’s important to understand their pathology or you will just end up making big mistakes.. such as marrying them for 20 years and having a bunch of kids with them. She doesn’t need to be here to defend herself this isn’t a court of law. Her ex husband of 20 years...

No, it’s called uncovering bs by using a real life example to show that toxic women aren’t as “quick and easy to spot” as the author claims.

Your ex wife taught you well. The comments in this thread are not about blame, they’re about identifying female toxic behaviour and getting out of a relationship with a damaged woman before you do something really stupid like marry her for 20 years and have four kids with her.

Yeah sure you can spot it pretty quick that’s why you spent 20 years and had four kids with a woman who was crazy. Your laughable hypocrisy aside, you don’t even realize it but you’re the perfect poster boy example of how important it is to understand these disorders, how they work, and how to...

Yeah thanks for your input, valuable stuff.

Not only is 1% a very low underestimate not taking into account women who are misdiagnosed, it also doesn’t take into account women who are in denial and don’t seek treatment. As we all know, BPD is heavily dependant on denial as a self defence mechanism and most women with the disorder by its...

I didn’t dismiss him at all nice try to deflect from the thread. You claimed there is no point in giving OP advice I responded by stating even if it doesn’t help him it will still help others. Now stop being a nuisance.

I’m not saying fvck the guy.. you are. This thread is an important resource for a lot of men.. even if the OP - as you claim - is a lost cause.

No it is not complete horsesh*t, it’s prioritizing the message and ensuring men who come here are able to read the importance of the warning rather than ignorantly focusing on the details of the OP’s own situation. You’re ignoring the forest for the trees, a very myopic and narrow viewpoint...

The only comment truly destructive in this thread is your suggestion to “suck it up.” Taking abuse and accepting toxicity in a relationship is never the answer. And also.. I alluded to your lack of experience interacting with women and how damaging they can be, as a divorced man you should...

^ Immature response reflecting your lack of experience. Just because your ex wife taught you to take her abuse and shut up about it doesn’t mean the rest of us have to.

No, that’s not true at all successful men learn from their mistakes and then try to inform other men of the dangers they face. Real men don’t just take abuse and keep it to themselves.. this is the reaction of someone who has been abused and been made to keep silent. Real men voice their...

Again, this is laying blame which does nobody any good. It also ignores the fact that women who are mentally ill often have been seeing counselors and been on psychiatric medication for many years before meeting the men they destroy. This is a common woman argument, in fact: the man made the...

You’re missing the whole point of the thread.. it does not matter whether the woman is diagnosed with a mental disorder what is important that men identify the toxic features exhibited by women so they can avoid them before they get too enmeshed/attached. For some guys to build the strength to...

It is her imperative, that’s what makes it such a destructive mental illness. And that’s why threads such as this one are so important: precisely to warn unsuspecting men of the the threat posed by these women so they can be avoided. Whether they choose to follow or ignore the advice is up to...

The comments in this thread are really meant to help ALL men reading it, not just the OP. And yes talk about how crazy BPD/toxic women are is VERY important, because awareness of the issue and the threat posed by these women is key.

^ more feminine-like shaming and blaming. Thanks for your input Mr. Manliness. Now hopefully you’ll take your feminist shaming somewhere else.