OP - how often in life are you going to run into a scenario like this? Never, again. Like you said.
You gotta go. Stuff gets weird then just leave, plenty to do. Get on that boat. If you bang, that’s a bonus to the bonus of the cruise...in your weird scenario...that is going to be awesome...
Never solve her problems. Say “sounds like (reiterate what she just said)”.
Always be a mystery. “What have you been up to?”. Answer “Wouldn’t you like to know?”. In short, don’t answer any questions, ever.
Get a vasectomy ASAP. Health insurance gladly covers it.
Never live with or marry...
https://www.revisor.mn.gov/statutes/cite/518.17
Good luck. There’s 12 best interests factors.
Was I questioned in even 1 of these during my 8 month proceedings? Nope. Not once.
By the way, these factors are not what you intend to do going forward. They are what have you been doing as a...
Best interests of the children is a farce. Take it from a divorced law student who has won custody.
There’s case law that proves this. I cannot cite it off the top of my head and it’s not my area of interest due to enmeshment.
In Minnesota, if you’re not married, children automatically go to...
By the way...
21 fathers per week...
...kill themselves...
because they are fighting to see their kids...
and losing.
Boil your noodles in that broth for a moment and then come tell me again how you want to be a father. FOH
I honestly don’t know and don’t care. I was always the type that if someone didn’t want to be with me, I held the door open for them to leave.
We were married 11 years, together 17, 3 kids. I know her mom was behind it and she lawyered up before she said she wanted a divorce.
I recorded...
Let her tell you. Then offer to drive her over to them.
Encourage her to continue to talking to whomever she mentions to you about it.
Tell her “You never know, he could be the one”
If she barks back and misbehaves, tell her
“You’re not getting any younger”
Honestly it’s probably not meant to be then.
She’s already on a steep pedestal with you.
Besides, how are the train rides going to go after you get rejected?
I usually try to encourage but I would exercise some forward thinking and caution just so you don’t feel like you wish you hadn’t.
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