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  1. J

    OLD photo turn offs

    Ok I gotta add. Ring thru the nose, gross! and yup , I agree I don’t like a ton of ink. Cigarette, automatic no.
  2. J

    OLD photo turn offs

    Here are some female photo turn offs for me. photo of her inside a private jet,,, oh good for you, you were F@@k some rich ass guy who flew you on his jet photo of her at the most expensive resteraunt in town usually taken outside so you know the name of the place,,,, oh really, so I gotta...
  3. J

    Date with a widow

    Yes. My bigger concern is no dates for her in 4 years. Either she’ll be super nervous. Or if I’m lucky super horny
  4. J

    Charlie Brown (BPD) Experience

    God this sounds like my 2.5 year on off deal with my bpd. Yes the sex is amazing, they know how to work you and manipulate. In the end they just cannot behave and act decent. I tried so hard.
  5. J

    Date last weekend.

    I think you’ll be challenged to find a continuous supply of women who are cool with the “ not get involved” deal. I’m not saying you gotta Marry them, but few are gonna be purely just a bang buddy, their not wired for that . Let her cook for you, that’s harmless.
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    Date with a widow

    At my age of 53 this occasionally comes up. I have a first date Thursday night with a woman who is 51 years old. I kept the texting to a minimum so I don’t know a lot of details. But it looks like her husband died over 10 years ago. She had a LTR for 6 years , but now I’m gonna be her first...
  7. J

    Holiday season. Here we go

    Yes good point. I’ll be with my kids on thanksgiving for lunch. So that’s awesome
  8. J

    3 years. Still not over her

    Just logged on and read the responses. thanks everyone. I’m still no contact at 3 years. But yeah. I think about her. One poster I think hit it on the head. It’s the great moments that I miss and I need to work to create those moments with a new woman
  9. J

    Holiday season. Here we go

    Another holiday season, I’ll be alone again, then my birthday in January. This is the worst time of the year to be single. Yeah yeah, I know, focus on myself, my business, workout, All of which I’ll do. anyone else feel like this?
  10. J

    Overweight

    Yeah i get that. My ex fiancé was like 105 pounds. Just did yoga but no cardio or weights super fit and trim. She was vegan and just didn’t eat much. On dates she almost always ordered from the appetizer choices. but I’m like you. No workout and let diet go and I can pack on fat like...
  11. J

    Cutting Out Sugar

    I just decided three weeks ago to cut sugar. The first week was hell. It’s gotten much easier after that and the cravings have subsided. I still allow myself something only once a week. There was a study where they gave Rats the choice between cocaine and sugar and believe it or not they chose...
  12. J

    Overweight

    Nop Nope you’re not shallow. I am 53, very fit and muscular. Here’s my issue with the overweight women. I WORK MY ASS OFF! to stay in shape. I have a very good, although boring diet. I have taken the time to educate myself on what works. So to me it’s an insult and disrespect if she’s not...
  13. J

    Woman making it easy.

    Dude. The ex boyfriend died of cancer, so I think not.
  14. J

    Woman making it easy.

    Oh I tried. But she somehow made it back to this dribble. Next !
  15. J

    Rucking backpack recommendations.

    I’m gonna argue the backpack is better than weighted vest. Why? Because if it’s a good pack that fits right 2/3 rrds of the weight will be carried on your hips via the hip belt. Not your shoulders.
  16. J

    Woman making it easy.

    Nope. Ex husband divorce was 11 years ago. Ex boyfriend 5 years ago.
  17. J

    Rucking backpack recommendations.

    I cannot day enough good things about Osprey. USA company. The bigger packs carry heavy loads great. Superior hip belts. Try it I was a long time Arc Teryx guy till switching to Osprey 3 years ago
  18. J

    I'm at an all-time LOW! Need some help!

    This won’t be popular with everyone. But. When I’ve been on a long dry spell a visit with an Escort did the trick. There’s no rejection and it’s great to have someone give you attention. Sure they are in it fir the money. But the good ones pull it off like they are your girl.
  19. J

    Longest OLD profile summary I've ever seen on match

    and women complain that men don’t read profiles. Geez lady. I wonder why.
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