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  1. Jacer

    How to Find a Long-Term Relationship During the Hectic Life of Graduate School

    Awesome, I love the way you talk, plain and simple. But I don't quite understand what "bang randoms" means, could you explain?
  2. Jacer

    How to Find a Long-Term Relationship During the Hectic Life of Graduate School

    Sounds simple and effective. Yes, academics come first and that is exactly what I was and am doing. I used to be a nerd, and just finishing school isn't going to get a girl close (very rarely), and I'm going to make some positive changes. In short, my reasons for seeking a relationship are: 1...
  3. Jacer

    How to Find a Long-Term Relationship During the Hectic Life of Graduate School

    Exactly!I'll try to make friends in the undergraduate program.I think that this religious belief becomes stronger with age and education. So an undergraduate college would be a good choice.
  4. Jacer

    How to Find a Long-Term Relationship During the Hectic Life of Graduate School

    It is a good idea. I've always been this way before, however, I've recently wanted to change it up because I think life should be filled with laughter and love. When I'm busy, I don't think about being single. When I'm idle, especially at night before bed, on state holidays, or when I finish a...
  5. Jacer

    How to Find a Long-Term Relationship During the Hectic Life of Graduate School

    Haha, happy to listen. What's the good news?;)
  6. Jacer

    How to Find a Long-Term Relationship During the Hectic Life of Graduate School

    Spinning plates sounds like a good idea. I would try if I could, but at the moment, in my opinion, it's not quite for me. There are several reasons. 1. Spinning plates on campus will be labeled as "bad men" by classmates, which will keep most women away. 2. I don't have enough time or money to...
  7. Jacer

    How to Find a Long-Term Relationship During the Hectic Life of Graduate School

    I read your previous post and it fits well with what I encountered. Great post. I will try more extracurricular activities. In addition, there is another problem, influenced by Confucianism, Chinese female college or graduate students are conservative in their thinking and are reluctant to have...
  8. Jacer

    How to Find a Long-Term Relationship During the Hectic Life of Graduate School

    Exactly! You are right.:up: I am a person who is easily influenced by those around me and seeing my former friends fall in love and get married makes me envious of having a relationship. However, it doesn't seem like the right time to be looking for a long-term relationship. Having very little...
  9. Jacer

    How to Find a Long-Term Relationship During the Hectic Life of Graduate School

    Wow, that sounds great. I studied in northeastern China, and our school had very few activities for graduate students. Students almost always spend time in labs and offices. Most female students are too lazy to go out in their free time and the breaks are almost filled with short videos. In...
  10. Jacer

    How to Find a Long-Term Relationship During the Hectic Life of Graduate School

    Hello, friends. I am a 24 year old current graduate student. I am looking for a long term relationship, but my experiments, thesis almost fill my life. I work 6 days a week, from 9am to 9pm, and I spend almost all my time in the lab or office. This life is monotonous and boring, and I have...
  11. Jacer

    A NICE MAN WAKE UP

    Sorry. I think I may have misunderstood you, but in China we call it "非诚勿扰".
  12. Jacer

    A NICE MAN WAKE UP

    I don't want to argue with you, but I've really heard of it for the first time. Don't fall into the cognitive trap.
  13. Jacer

    A NICE MAN WAKE UP

    哇,你能书写中文!真是一个令人开心的事情! 中国人的思想受儒家文化影响深远,思想比较保守。 It’s my first time heard this show, but I think I will like it soon
  14. Jacer

    A NICE MAN WAKE UP

    Yes, I am Chinese I have learned English since Grade 3 in primary school. But my English is not very well, I have little chance to speak English in China. As we all know, environment is very important for language. We need practice to improve language skills.
  15. Jacer

    A NICE MAN WAKE UP

    Groundwater Science and Engineering What about you ? What 白术 means ?
  16. Jacer

    A NICE MAN WAKE UP

    SOME WRONG THINGS I HAVE DONE 1. In a long-distance relationship, a proper distance may produce beauty, but a long distance will only produce a new lover. She and I were in different cities, and since I was studying in a foreign country, I could only see her once in six months, which made our...
  17. Jacer

    A NICE MAN WAKE UP

    Hello, my friend. I can not understand what is “白术” ? I know Xiahou Dun, he is a honer in Romance Of The Three Kingdoms. I like read books. You are right , i don't want to take any sh1t from women. I and my GF come from Henan(河南), but now I study in Jilin(吉林). I only come back two times per...
  18. Jacer

    A NICE MAN WAKE UP

    Hello everyone! Nice to meet you in SoSuave. I am Chinese, 24 years old ,and studying for my Master Degree in China . To be honest, I think I am an absolute NICE MAN. I respect women, seldom argue with women, I care about my girlfriend than myself(It’s wrong! It doesn’t attract women at all...
  19. Jacer

    Memorize This Phrase and Make It a Part of You

    Great ! This post made me feel energized ! nothing i can't handle !
  20. Jacer

    Docs - The Newbie's first step to the rest of their life. [Part II out of II]

    Great post in 2023 too, great benefit
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