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    Stop giving women an excuse for flaking

    Recently I have been seeing more threads on the forum relating to women flaking. Handling a flake and recovering from a flake. A woman flaking comes down to low interest or medium interest, her desire to flake outweighs the prospect of her getting dressed, leaving her house and meeting with...
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    Stop pursuing women with low and borderline medium interest!

    I wouldn't beat yourself up about it, she was definitely borderline-interested or she wouldn't went out with you multiple times at her insistence. Somewhere along the line she lost complete interest. You need to decide what you want from a woman before you pursue otherwise you'll attract the...
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    Stop pursuing women with low and borderline medium interest!

    She lost interest in you already. At best she had borderline medium interest by date 4-5. Because an interested woman wouldn't dump a guy over a single prudish comment, her plan was to wait for you to say something she can disagree with, and then dump you. Remember a uninterest women is...
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    Stop pursuing women with low and borderline medium interest!

    If your friend is genuinely unattractive he may need to persist more than the average guy. He has gotten laid by sacrificing his dignity, integrity just for sex. Men can pursue, up to a limit. The issue is when you are pursuing and the lady isn't reciprocating and you're still pursuing to...
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    Stop pursuing women with low and borderline medium interest!

    It's a common theme I see on this forum where a woman is showing very low interest or at best borderline medium interest, and the poster wants advice on how to convert the lady into a high interest prospect. Yes it is possible to convert low interest woman into a high interest woman and it...
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    UK Live in partner laws and rights

    Hi, I am from the UK, and I am not a solicitor. My interpretation is if the house is paid off, your asset is protected. You are not married so she can't take the house. Although, if she moves in she could refuse to leave and claim she lives there. If she has letters and has contributed to the...
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    So wtf happened this time

    This strategy is terrible. I understand that it has worked for you before but even a broken clock is right twice a day. The conversation has just started so she hasn't invested anything into you yet. Once she is invested you can mention FWB or the sexual arrangement otherwise you will scare her...
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    Building an entry level IT portfolio

    Hi, IT is a broad area, so you need to drill down to the specific area of IT that you're interested in. It's not good enough to say "I am open to just about anything" because it sounds like you don't have a clear direction, and the recruiters will only take a risk on somebody ambition with a...
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    A random guy at the club cannot compete with Tinder, Bumble and her social circle

    I see, you were relating it to tennis because its your thing. I've got a friend who teaches Taekwondo, he has generated a few lays from his students. For you it depends on the dynamics of your tennis club, if its a serious environment where the women want to play and leave then you'll find...
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    A random guy at the club cannot compete with Tinder, Bumble and her social circle

    I think you took what I said too literally. Tennis club is just an example, a social circle can be from any social activity or society that makes sense for your lifestyle. What are your thoughts about an average guys success rate at a bar compared to a guy she meets through social media...
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    A random guy at the club cannot compete with Tinder, Bumble and her social circle

    Even women from your social circle you have to vetted. I would advise not going for a women who have a strong fixture to your circle and look at fringe social circles etc. Like if you're invited to a party some ladies won't necessarily be a close friend of the person hosting, in fact she may...
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    How to pursue low interest or medium interest girls

    Hi Knight of Roses The answer is not to pursue women who are low interest or medium interest to begin with. You are wasting time and resources on the wrong battle. Obviously there are thousands of variables which could nudge a low or medium interest women to a high interest women, but it's not...
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    A random guy at the club cannot compete with Tinder, Bumble and her social circle

    So 20 is the app threshold according to you...that makes sense. Learn to read. I never said 1 friend is a social circle.
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    A random guy at the club cannot compete with Tinder, Bumble and her social circle

    The key word was "etc", it stands for et cetera. This means the list is longer than four but for simplicity I have listed four to compress the long list. I never said women use their social circles as their primary method. I pointed out they use social media too. Also social circle isn't just...
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    Girl left her IG signed into my phone

    The fact she is active on Instagram is a big red flag, girls who use it for socially are often big attention seekers. She is your friend with benefits, so she doesn't owe you anything. If she is a cool person and you enjoy hanging out with her this shouldn't change anything. A women can only...
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    A random guy at the club cannot compete with Tinder, Bumble and her social circle

    There are so many nonsense threads talking about "club game", whether its getting her number at the club and following up the next day or getting her back to your house for a quick lay, I am here to say that its an inefficient way of meeting women and you'll lose out to men she meets on social...
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    40+ MILF coworker, would bang, but...

    I would leave this alone, she is married with kids. Why mess-up her marriage for a few hours of fun, it would be different if she was single or a stranger, she is a friend or acquaintance so you should let her enjoy her marriage in peace. More to the point, you've known her for a while and she...
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    If you get her number at the club she won't remember you the next day!

    I believe this the experience that most men have, instant block the very next day.
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    If you get her number at the club she won't remember you the next day!

    This is an interesting and genuine perspective, I agree the club is playing on our testosterone and our urge to satisfy our sexual desires. Pack the club with women and let the men waste their money. I bet 99% of men leave alone or with a number that doesn't lead to a date or sex. Very true...
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    If you get her number at the club she won't remember you the next day!

    I don't think applies to club game, because a women might be interested at 3AM in the club whilst she is intoxicated. In the morning her hormones and body chemistry may change and she might be indifferent about you when you text. I like this saying. Yes, the girl has to like you regardless...
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