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    Who's Having Success in Social Circles?

    Meetup is a wasteland. The local young professional groups are barren. Cold approaches are increasingly difficult as clubs and bars with dance floors are closed everywhere. I've had some success with work and business related social networking but with remote work that's occurring less and...
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    Women dating down, how are you supposed to feel?

    The chad meme from the manosphere and blackpillers has petered out due to a nearly complete absence of real world evidence. A more apt term may be "unicorn." A uniquely good looking guy with a look and vibe that is almost impossible to duplicate.
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    Women dating down, how are you supposed to feel?

    I'm not going to presume to give you advice. Instead, I will ask, what is your strategy? And just as importantly, what are your goals? Do you insist on a hot wife, 8+, or are you willing to aim for compatibility even if she's a bit less attractive?
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    Women dating down, how are you supposed to feel?

    His main problem emotionally is his preposterous sense of entitlement. He constantly insists that all women are dumb, since none of them choose him, despite his being 6'4" and muscular. Notice however, he never mentions having a handsome face, which I guarantee that a narcissist like him would...
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    Women dating down, how are you supposed to feel?

    More likely an ugly face or combination of creeper vibes along with an ugly face. Sadly, he's been posting for years ducking an honest self assessment instead claiming women are dumb for not choosing him. His delusional sense of entitlement will never go away, hindering any success or even...
  6. J

    Women dating down, how are you supposed to feel?

    You can be tall and muscular and handsome or average looking or below average looking. If you have an average or below average facial appearance you are not at the level you think/hope you are at. From what I've seen, there is no correlation between height and the attractiveness of a female...
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    Women dating down, how are you supposed to feel?

    Pretty much nothing about your post makes any sense. If "your level" is as high as you claim why are you asking out 4's? If "your level" is as high as you claim why are you being rejected by 4's? If "your level" is as high as you claim why are you still upset about being rejected by a 4 two...
  8. J

    We are most attracted to women in our league

    You are mistaking comfort for attraction.
  9. J

    Cute chick vendor at the fleamarket by my store

    Make sure she has a green card too.
  10. J

    Once You Date A High Interest Girl You can Never Go Back

    "Latinas" are just as fat on average, if not fatter, than white women. To make things worse, "latinas" are quite a bit shorter which makes their proportions look even more unattractive. Most "latinas" have very little "latin" blood. Most have more jungle indio and sub saharan african blood than...
  11. J

    Why the rise in sexless men/simps is the final blow to dating

    I wrote about this earlier, but a 2% and probably even a 10% cutoff is likely unrealistically high. I DO believe that hypergamy is ramping upwards however (when and where possible) so that guys at the lower fringes of the top 20% range are being negatively impacted...
  12. J

    Where Are the Young Adults???

    The ugly reality is this: while the most attractive women are 18 to 25, almost all of them are inaccessible since they are in college or grad school and therefore "locked down" on college campuses. How many of us have the time or ability to wander around college campuses during the day? Very...
  13. J

    Where Are the Young Adults???

    The level of catfishing on meetup is getting way out of hand. Most are old women who are posting photos which are 15, 20, 30(!) years out of date! The other women are shooping their photos using cheap online filters and apps but these women are so dumb they'll filter out their face wrinkles...
  14. J

    Women's Horniness is at an All Time High

    I'm barely putting any effort into my appearance these days. I occasionally shave but my streetgear consists strictly of sweatpants, sweatshirt and sneakers. I can't even be bothered with jeans anymore. Nonetheless, women are showing more interest, initiating far more often, and showing no...
  15. J

    Where Are the Young Adults???

    1. lots of popular clubs and bars have shut down or limited hours since early 2020. 2. colleges have turned into soft prisons with severe restrictions on student's ability to travel and associate freely and/or constant tracking of their movements discouraging freedom of travel. 3. lots of...
  16. J

    How did you get over your high school crush?

    The women I've met post h.s. have been so much better looking and so much nicer and more interesting it's not even a question.
  17. J

    Meetup Has Hit Rock Bottom (I Think)

    I had a really nice summer and the release of bottled up sexual tension amongst the ladies was a wonderful experience, both expected and unexpected. My confidence recently has been quite high and out of curiosity started browsing some meetup events again. Yeah I know all the jokes about meetup...
  18. J

    Where Are the Young Adults???

    I live in a blue state and everyone is sick of it, especially young adults. Even the diehard liberals who supported every sh-tlib cause for the past 2 years: blm, masks, feminism, etc. are now enraged by the mask and vax being shoved down their throats and up their noses nonstop. This is a...
  19. J

    Where Are the Young Adults???

    I prefer a milder climate but can tolerate most types of weather aside from extreme humidity (Miami). It seems like most people can if PHX and Tucson are experiencing explosive growth.
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