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    After getting ghosted by an OLD beau, and oblivious to the fact that this is the standard treatment of men on OLD, single mommy lectures men about it

    yeah, I understand where you are coming from. But this wasn't always the case. in the past when woman had many partners, our parents/grandparents did not say it was a good thing. Like she had "abundance". they looked down on her.. they didn't compare it to man who had many options as...
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    After getting ghosted by an OLD beau, and oblivious to the fact that this is the standard treatment of men on OLD, single mommy lectures men about it

    When a man has a lot of sex with man y women, he has "abundance..." When a woman has a single, committed relationship with a high value man while experiencing life's events together, she has abundance... Situationships is not "abundance" for women. Like having a good job, being successful...
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    Life's like that game.

    no, dating is like the prisoner's dilemma. each person has the ability to cooperate.. or try to use someone (sex, money, resources, etc).. it's not any more complicated than that... however, many people say the prisoners dilemma IS very complicated.
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    Grey

    Everything and anything that signals that a man is successful, sociable, healthy, etc... will be trendy. During the 90's (my highschool years), people who were successful, sociable, etc. (basically, had the qualities that women wanted) were clean shaven. Most good jobs required men to be...
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    Grey

    I've noticed this too... Not a lot, but a few of my grey hairs actually turned black when I started to eat better and exercise more (after my divorce a several years ago). I could tell because I would look at the grey hair, and then look at the roots. The roots were actually black. Kinda...
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    Grey

    I agree. I remember I was one of the first persons in my social group to start having a beard/five o'clock shadow. MY girlfriend at the time would tell me to shave. That I didn't look good with it. Now a days, guys "look better" with one. At least a lot of women, tell me so. Things change...
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    Grey

    I love my grey hair. A few years ago, my barber says that it was fashionable for younger people to dye their hair gray or for men to not color their hair at all. I also remember a time when having no facial hair was a trendy thing to do (10-15 years ago?) At the end of the day, I think grey...
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    Something really wrong with women in 2024...

    Throughout history, it was always hard for the average young man to attract the average young woman (almost all young woman are beautiful due to youth and fertility - its nature). Women were designed to be "chased", men were designed to do the chasing. There would be no "chasing" if the...
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    Something really wrong with women in 2024...

    I agree... but following that train of thought that women may not be rational and we can not change them, we will necessarily end up with something like Islam. I'm not yet ready to cross that Rubicon. however, women and men are happier in Islam and arranged marriages according to many...
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    Something really wrong with women in 2024...

    on a macro level, the ideas of self improvement does not work. however, on the individual level it does. however, if we look at this problem at an individual level, it's a zero sum game. it's the situation where a single man is trying to "not out run the bear" that is chasing him. but only...
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    Something really wrong with women in 2024...

    the average man who wants to date the average woman cannot learn to be above average. it's like learning how to be taller than 5'10"... or teaching the average man to earn more than average. the math just doesn't work. if the average woman continues to want the above average man, she will...
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    One possible reason high interest women suddenly ghost/flake on you for no reason...

    The average man barely dates... so, yeah, this is the least of his problems... CHADs, players, etc.. those that date a lot of women and leave behind broken hearts, etc.. yeah... those people might have to worry.,
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    What do you take to work out?

    diet coke. drink 1/2 the bottle, throw the rest away, and use thw bottle to store water from the fountain. workout gloves and ear phones. use to be able to bench 290lbs (could of gone higher, but my chest started to feel weird so I stopped at that weight) all you really need is protein (from...
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    I f*** a single mom.

    It's called child support...
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    The number one reason the dating market actually sucks for men is because.....

    Well, if you really think about it. The word "girlfriend" has changed. It's basically the same thing as a "plate" now a days. In the past, the title of girlfriend meant there was a high likelihood of getting married. It was a big deal to be someone's girlfriend. The "girlfriends" of todays...
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    The number one reason the dating market actually sucks for men is because.....

    God give the average young woman attractive bodies to trap an average guy. Not to sleep around with chad. God give the hooker the ability NOT to pair-bond so she can sleep with a lot of men and not care about it. Because life is mostly random, we don't know what the future brings: fortune or...
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    The number one reason the dating market actually sucks for men is because.....

    There were a lot of "Ricks" back then. Man, it still amazes me how many women were virgins at the time. I think someone brought up the status, 1 in 5 women were virgins. Dang. I'm sure in certain circles, it was probably even more. When I was in highschool, when a girl slept with 1 or 2...
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    The number one reason the dating market actually sucks for men is because.....

    Female promiscuity is a failure. The old system where the majority of women were chaste while there was town bicycle for men to "test drive" and practice their pua skills on. That was how it was for generations and IMHO it worked. Letting women date around, and experiment. It just gives the...
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    The number one reason the dating market actually sucks for men is because.....

    This is me as an 8 year old or 10 year old at the time (pre-aids): Typical conversation between an adult: Rick: Sally is a slut. She's no good for Bobby. Did you see how she dresses. She's probably not even a virgin. Other people: but its okay. They love each other besides Bobby doesn't...
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