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So OP means original post right. The mistake I made was doubting myself and my way of dealing with girls. I thought she had acted like this because of how I behaved, but that's not the case, this girl has serious problems with alcohol, she mentioned something to me but I didn't get it. This was...

If you answered based on what I wrote in the first post, the problem is already solved, I simply didn't realize I was dealing with a person with problems, because a normal person doesn't behave like that.

Sorry, I'm Italian and I don't understand what OP means. Was it referring to me? That said, why would I be a beta man? Because don't I want to date an alcoholic? Or because I don't want to keep up with a confused girl who plays difficult? I'm not in this world to solve women's problems, I make...

update on the situation: I left this girl alone, reflecting on our meeting, I came to understand that she has serious problems with alcohol, and from what she had told me I deduce that she has also had problems with anorexia in the past, ergo a person like this is better to leave her alone, I...

Yes, you're right, if she gets attached I can't do anything about it, she used a lot of harsh words, she was very needy, it surprised me a little

If I get along well with a girl I behave this way, because I'm like that, what can I do? I tried to make her understand that we were going too fast, she was very drunk, she used very strong words and I didn't feel like disappointing her, I was careful about what I said to her, I would hate to...

I didn't even try to kiss the first girl in reality, with the second I drank and I got on well but the point is that her attachment worries me, I see her very taken with me and it scares me, I don't want to disappoint her, she's a good girl lass Honestly, I don't consider myself a *****, it's...

I wanted to ask for advice, I saw 2 girls, I got on well with the first one, we didn't kiss, but I think she likes me and we should see each other again soon. I already knew the second girl, I had lunch at her house, she was a little embarrassed but after a few glasses of wine she melted, we...

I'm 100% sure she's a LTR girl, but I wasn't interested in seeing her again and so I tried everything, also because the evening had gone well and she was into me

I completely agree with you, the best thing is to invite her home on the second date, the problem is that as in the case of this girl, I don't care to see her again, so I played it all

I agree, here in my city it happens often, we all know each other, many girls don't have sex on the first date for fear of having social repercussions

Yesterday I was on a date with a girl, we drank a beer on a bench on the waterfront in my city, after about an hour I kissed her, she was taken, she kissed me passionately. We went back to my house (she accompanied me with her his car, I don't have a vehicle at the moment) We kissed again and I...

Have you ever lost opportunities because you invited a girl over at the end of the first date? And she refused? I do more than once, especially when I'm not interested in having a second date. Sometimes I'm too clingy, once I get to kissing I can't help myself and I push to have sex, that's...

I think at the moment she doesn't hang out with any other friends and needs some company, she knows I'm attracted to her and rides on it, sadly it doesn't give me a way to escalate because we sat out on the balcony but on 2 separate chairs and she didn't even get too close to me, like last time...

Update on situations and reflections. I ate at her house but nothing happened, despite trying to escalate. It's too late now, I have no more chances to sleep with her, I have to agree with those who say that if a woman wants to have sex with you she will make things easy for you, she doesn't, so...

Brother, what have Italian women done to you, you hate them lol

Sorry I had a busy days, thanks again for the advice I will try to do my best in the next meeting, as for those who wrote negative comments, I don't understand what the problem is, she is a beautiful woman, very attractive for her age, why shouldn't I try to bed her? The women I've been most...

Unfortunately I can't invite her to my house, I live with my grandfather and she knows it, and even though I think she would agree to having sex it would be too obvious, I think if it has to happen, it will happen at her house We live in Italy anyway

I'm trying to take things forward but very slowly and it may not be enough, every now and then I stroked her back, left my hand on her leg and she seemed to react positively, we also had conversations about sex. As someone said surely she knows what I want and consequently I think she wants it...

Thanks to all for the advice, unfortunately nothing happened, we went around the shops and she told me she didn't want to have an aperitif so we went home and stopped to do the shopping, she had to buy 2 bottles of water and with an excuse I offered her to take 6 directly and that I would help...