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If you're not a natural or otherwise lack game, you need to 1) know what to do/how to be; 2) implement it. First step can be daunting, running into moral dilemmas for instance, by the **** we're programmed with. To even only make the plan for daring to be a man, all that. Beyond that this step...

I'm considering asking a GP doctor for advice, but doubt some kid has something sensible to say (though the doctor at the clinic performing vasectomy might). I have in many ways ****ty genes, I don't want kids, I'm old, I want a good sex life. I could have wanted kids if my life panned out in a...

I'm also confident about not having kids, but still linger a lot. Haven't read anything about complications, during my research. My thoughts: It would reduce anxiety and improve one’s sex life There’s something very unmanly about being castrated There’s something “potent” about at least being...

This is my conclusion too these days. It's rather depressing. Things doesn't become the way you want or plan, you just have to take whatever you can get. At least not for me. I think man walks in some kind of "dead" state, compared to the euphoric and transient, that is women.

It is said that guys have oneitis while girls are alpha widows (Tomassi). However, I believe (some) men can be alpha widows. It's a reversed dynamic hence. Though I think it's a state that can be cured in men, was with me, I don't know about women. Prime example of this is Daniel Craig's Bond...

Poison, Alice Cooper

Well, just because some lines were posted doesn't necessarily imply I use them is some mechanical manner, as the guy you describe. I do reflect over what I say, and I think there are better and worse such, and simply listing examples works great for reflection, rather than than generic, vague...

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What do you say instead? Feel free to give examples.

Let’s share our best lines for OLD/chatting that are polarising, masculine, confident and c0cky & funny. Here’s are some: You tryna friend-zone me already? I’m in charge of you now Are you ready? You got a dorky nose, but you’re cute in it What's your favourite place to be kissed?

I've gotten better at text game, but it's still hard. For a teen-to-teen they are very similar, but if you're dealing with girls from different ages and cultures, it's hard to read/guess them based om a "hi" and a profile picture or so. But maybe that's a poor excuse: it's possible to have great...

You seem to have a large inflow. Where do you source your girls? OLD? Cold approach? I have a very low intake to my pipeline.

I find that part challenging, how to be C&F, upbeat, charming and all that. I often attempt it, but it is often received negatively. My problem is that I don't have the energy for it, or the mood, am rather resigned. Let me know your tips for having a feel for what is suitable and what that is...

Start somewhere.

I was thinking of nuts. They have a hard shell, but the kernel should be invulnerable, hard and reliable too.

I’ve since youth had the problem of exerting myself to burnout-ish states. That state follows some well-documented pattern of first restlessness and stress, followed by sincere tiredness (and hence restitution possible), if done properly. The problem is this is a no go. I can’t have this jerky...

I agree. I don't get any form of validation generally and I walk around with a constant sadness. One good date, such as my Saturday, by a girl that actually appreciate you, and one feels like a human being. And if you're functioning, as opposed to battling some kind of depression, one has...

Another version of ghosting is the "post interaction." You spend time with a girl and naturally add on social media at the end, but she doesn't accept afterwards. It can indeed be seen as that the agreement at the time was just a strategy for conveniently getting rid of me. But at least not...

I agree. I cold approach a lot too, and the majority of them end in IHAB. However, I think there's a reasoning behind this. In Casino Royale there is this exchange: - James, why is it you like married women? - That keeps them simple. The one's with a boyfriend, that is the girl belongs to...

The theory that the dating pool is small due to that there's few girls in the high value league of supposedly oneself, is of course very appealing. I have an acquaintance that owns a couple of apartments, drives a Porsche, his own company and got height/looks/body. So what does this...