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  1. Konada

    You men are doing it all wrong!

    Lol. You all got played, sons. All I see is an entire circle jerk, disappointing but true. You're arguing logic with a woman, an emotional being. Think about that, how it unravels all the DJ principles this forum preaches.
  2. Konada

    Advice what should I text girl in beginning of week to setup date?

    Women will abuse any wriggle room you give them. Keep it simple: You: Hi xxx, S4D here. Have anything fun (possibly illegal) lined up for the week ahead? HB: Hi :) blahblahblah You: Well, I'm free on xxx. Let's meet for a drink. HB: Yes/No/My grandma is on fire I cant make it. Simple, straight...
  3. Konada

    Field Report: Where to improve?

    Konada: Definitely had fun last night. Was yours fun (possibly illegal)? HB8: Hahaha. Yeah kinda had fun last night. Whatcha doing? <2 hours later> HB8: Since you live so near me, would you wanna hang out since I'm bored. Konada: Kinda busy now studying for tomorrow exams. Konada: I'm heading to...
  4. Konada

    My Situations: Am I On A Downward Spiral?

    bmp2cpm hit the nail on the head with this. I got fvcked up because of how I was raised as a child. The hardest part about this Ten, is facing up to the situation that you do have a problem that needs to be solved with your family. Whether you like it or not, your years spent growing up with...
  5. Konada

    My Situations: Am I On A Downward Spiral?

    I'm talking about life coaching, it has done alot for me in terms of self-actualization and understanding how I'm sabotaging myself sometimes. Psychologists are a bunch of bull, basically useless mental masturbation. Good that you know where your anger is coming from and do you realize how...
  6. Konada

    Spinning those plates while on Tinder

    Totally agree with Espi, either they're in or they're out. Lying/cheating your way will only get her hurt and create more problems for rest of the men in the future. Be unapologetic about your desires and motivations. If she brings up Tinder, this classic line "Is there a problem?" always shuts...
  7. Konada

    My Situations: Am I On A Downward Spiral?

    I have a hunch that something is off within you which is why you are experiencing little success in all areas of your life. Looking at things objectively, barring your family, the common denominator in all interactions is you. It could be a sub-conscious part of you that you aren't even aware...
  8. Konada

    2 Questions I always lose with.

    1. What are you looking for? "Not looking for anything much, no expectations. Just go with the flow and see what happens." Room for improvement? 2. How many relationships have you had? I never had a gf/virgin but I don't know how to turn this question around without lying to her face. Help!
  9. Konada

    What insults do you use when you see a girls your attracted to with a beta?

    Never felt the need to insult a girl's boyfriend. Usually I poke fun at their beta orbiters instead and they will squeal 'You're horrible!/such an assh0le.'
  10. Konada

    What insults do you use when you see a girls your attracted to with a beta?

    'So when am I gonna get some of the free sh!t he's giving you?'
  11. Konada

    Tinder game.

    General guide: 1. Pictures make or break you 2. Cheeky one-liner for your profile, nothing too tryhard 3. Number in 4-5 exchanges max, as you get better you can sort of tell when a girl is AW-ing or simply uncomfortable. 4. Text her within 24 hours. Tinder is hypergamy on steroids, be...
  12. Konada

    Went on first date with this HB7

    1000 rupees.
  13. Konada

    Left me hanging.

    Maybe when you learn some basic reading skills I will try to reply you.
  14. Konada

    Left me hanging.

    Lol...who said about meeting her friends? I invited her out for a drink ALONE. If she brings friends then byebye.
  15. Konada

    Left me hanging.

    Left her alone until this afternoon where I shot her a message: Me: Definitely had fun last night. Was your night fun (possibly illegal)? HB8: Hahaha. It was fun, watcha doing now? <2 hours later> HB8: Since you stay so near, do you wanna hang out? I'm bored. Me: Kinda busy studying for an...
  16. Konada

    Got Friendzoned/lost interest after a few dates - what next?

    No. Just move on. Admit you just want to fvck her and you're hoping 'being her friend' will get you there. Move on. If anything, being this girl's friend is only going to hurt you more because she will be telling all her friends 'Oh John is such a nice guy, he totally respects women.' - I.E...
  17. Konada

    Left me hanging.

    It's already 11pm here lol.
  18. Konada

    Left me hanging.

    Well I had actual plans tonight with another chick... @deesade : I just made a realization after reading Des' posts. Its all about confidence persistence, its a buyer's market and our value will not be shown until we meet in person. That is where a DJ has the power to shift the dynamic into his...
  19. Konada

    Left me hanging.

    While I am inclined to agree, I know she has been on her phone for the entire 3 days she went ghost after I sent the message "Wine is great...etc..etc". In my experience, chicks who have even luke-warm interest will at least reply to the message and not leave you hanging for the period of 3 days...
  20. Konada

    Left me hanging.

    She went ghost after I sent the last message until today where we're supposed to meet: HB8: Hey are we still on for tonight? Sorry for the late reply, I'm so forgetful when it comes to replying. Me: Well you didn't confirm for tonight, so I made other plans beforehand. HB8: Hehehe ok enjoy your...
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