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I am confused, did she not say she's going to come over / move back in? What more is there to talk about? I was going to meet her in person

Thanks, I really need to work on my game. I think I take everything too seriously

Ah, my thought process was to show her that i have **** to do (which is true) and that I was busy. is it better to just say 'ok' in this case?

I think she said she only wants to pay the transfer fee. She just called me asking again if she has to pay... and she threw in the comment that it seems that I don't care. I just calmly mentioned that these chain of events were all initiated and carried out by her (moving out, breaking up...

Yes I can but its the principle behind it. There is about 2 months left on the lease.

Just an update. She texted me out of the blue today again (asking if she needs to pay the rest of the rent for the remainder of the lease). The following chat transcript follows: Her: "Am I expected to pay rent if I'm not living there anymore" Me: "Yes, you also agreed to it last week when you...

Thanks, what makes you say that? (just curious / for future reference)

How would she know if I havent texted her and we've seen each other once? She knows I have a back-up. I feel for some reason you have developed some sort of dislike for me and are non-stop bashing me for some reason.

Hm. Not anymore. I think she is slowly realizing this now (hence her lashing out that she wants to cancel the session/end things/move out, lol)

I agree that's why I was kind of was cold with my responses. I was going to make her earn her way back in.

I have, I was told this is a **** test of some sort. Just curious... how would you have handled it ? (for future reference)

Yeah to be honest she's not a very good communicator (always super passive aggressive, says manipulative **** . The last couple days she's been kinda acting like she owns all the cards... i was actually recommended to flip the script on her (not being available, etc.)

That's not what i read from here. I thought it was a pretty stupid question of her... especially if she pays rent. Why does she need to ask that question? Keep in mind this is the same girl that left and wanted to stay at her parents FIRST (i never suggested this), keep in mind that she got mad...

Also... i just realized i accidentally sent screenshots of our convo.... to her... did i **** up? One of my friends wanted to see what was said so i meant to send it to him. whoops

I am a bit confused. She asked if she can stay here (she pays rent mind you) and I said: "why couldn't you?" lol" (kind of a stupid question no?). I was a bit busy at the time and couldnt come up with an elaborate response. Then a few hours later she texts me again saying that she wants to...

I guess get her to chase me . She texted me like 2 hours ago (I haven’t sent any messages all day cause I was actually busy) Her : can you cancel the therapy session this week? Me: already done np Her: cool when can I pick up my stuff? Me: anytime , just let me know ahead of time . Got...

Thanks, next time I will try that.

Thanks for that. I appreciate it, I will try to practice what you recommend (it's harder in person than on paper unfortunately)

What should i say? lol

I am not arguing anything. You seem very desperate to paint me in a bad light. Sure I made some mistakes but I feel my response is a bit stronger than most guys out there. The whole reason she's lashing out is because I didn't text her back all weekend.