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  1. Konada

    Can a DJ be alpha-widowed?

    With all a majority of women being trash, what happens if we find a girl who ticks all the possible boxes of a good LTR dumps us? Does it set a baseline standard for what we accept or no less for future LTRs? By this, I mean a woman who is: 1. Attractive 2. Submissive 3. Sexually pleases you...
  2. Konada

    When is a man ready for a serious relationship?

    No. A man is ready for an LTR when he finds himself screening out women who don't match up to his standards of what a feminine woman should be, no matter how hot they are.
  3. Konada

    What's the best response to someone who flakes on the date?

    "No worries, I understand." Hit her up a week later. In my experience, girls rarely "let you know" again that early in the dating phase. That only works when she is invested in you. It doesn't matter whether a girl is hot, if she gives me drama/flaky BS she is a low priority on my list. Not...
  4. Konada

    Depression & Frustration--Must Read

    I guess what most people don't realize is that by being on this site and putting effort into getting our issues fixed already sets us into the top 20% of people. Most people roll along life unaware of how they are living their lives, much less of their subconcious behaviors.
  5. Konada

    Woman has long distance boyfriend

    Don't forget @fastlife and @guru1000 . And of course @Konada
  6. Konada

    Anyone here more on the "quiet" side and do well?

    I'm a quiet guy, but when I open my mouth I always get a few laughs.
  7. Konada

    Frustrated, lonely, and feeling down

    People have the notion only gay guys join but really it takes alot of balls to shrug off that social stigma. You're expected to lead always, a great insight of how masculine and feminine polarity should feel like and how your relationships should be as well.
  8. Konada

    Frustrated, lonely, and feeling down

    No way am I advocating stopping dating women entirely. Imo that's a cop out. OP should reprioritize and just date enough to keep the rust off while he does the real work
  9. Konada

    Frustrated, lonely, and feeling down

    Not really. Idk I get girls pvssies wet when i tell them I do latin dance, they probably associate it with being able to fvck well or some sh!t.
  10. Konada

    Frustrated, lonely, and feeling down

    THE GAMEPLAN At this current situation, I want you to discard having success with women and focus on developing your relationship with yourself while reducing your dating frequency. To be honest, you are not ready for women yet. The entire objective of this game plan is to set yourself up to be...
  11. Konada

    Frustrated, lonely, and feeling down

    Apologies for the long wait. Work has been piling up lately, leaving no time for myself. Finally got a break last night binge playing video games... Any who, I'm gonna point out key pressing issues you have voiced out and also a series of actionable steps to get things going rather than telling...
  12. Konada

    Paying for a "dating coach"

    I wouldn't necessarily pay for a dating coach because tried and tested system. The furthest I went was buying "Models" but that honestly was the best $30 bucks I spent on women.
  13. Konada

    First Impressions

    We always talk about giving others a first impressions. Granted, we cannot control whether people are able to look beyond that but I'm curious for ourselves personally. How accurate are first impressions and should we learn to look past it? More often than not, I've been proven wrong and...
  14. Konada

    Spinning multiple plates at once vs. just having an Abudance mentality

    Sorry but I disagree. One cannot achieve the true abundance mentality until he has experienced abundance itself. A dude may tell himself that rationally there's a next one. And he is right but he is still waiting for that one girl to prove him right emotionally. Fully internalizing a belief...
  15. Konada

    Frustrated, lonely, and feeling down

    Sounds like its time to take a break from the world and hibernate in your man-cave. I'll write a detailed post when I get home but for now answer this simple question: What things apart from women make you feel fulfilled in life? Are you doing those things?
  16. Konada

    How can I use push-pull technique in our relationship?

    No submission, no attention. A woman needs to know she's always on thin ice with you otherwise she will get comfortable and treat you like sh!t. Avail your resources only to those who please you. This is going downhill because you are rewarding her for acting like a b!tch.
  17. Konada

    Rate my texting - post field texting to meet up

    That was really painful to read, too tryhard and gay with the hearts and are you on my level ****. Cut the crap and lead like a man. You: Hey handsome HB: haha heyy You: how are you doing? HB: Good. And you? You: Doing well. I have a craving for something sweet.. ;) Let's get some ice cream...
  18. Konada

    What is GAME exactly?

    Different strokes for different folks. Personally I do not mind being average as long as I am living the life I want. Unfortunately being average in this era does not get me what I want. So yes, I have to be above-average in order to get my dream life, an means to an end rather than the end itself.
  19. Konada

    Bigger & better Men.

    Or you know. He actually knew how to vet for a NAWALT female.
  20. Konada

    IOI's from very hot girls, still don't know what to do

    Little Richard would like to have a word with you. Then you whip out your d!ck and spin it helicopter style. Works everytime 66% of the time.
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