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Based on your description, I would say the reg flag here is that she doesn't like to be held accountable for her actions. The constant complaining about things she can change + inability to have hard conversations point to above. I adopt a very explicit approach with my wife, because I cannot...

Just try it for 3 months and see how it goes lol. Better than sitting here over analyzing. If you are as good looking as you say, its worth a try.

As a happily married man, I can echo what @BeExcellent shared here. Sharing your feelings with your significant other doesn't make you look weak, refusing to own them and pick yourself up is. Of course, context matters. Mystery may hook a woman in the early phase of dating, but when the...

If you just want hookups I believe there are sites out there that, seekingarrangements.com or hire escorts. You don't pay them for sex, you pay for them to leave you alone after that. Other than that, dating is a necessary thing to meet women. Going for women you like helps alot in the process...

I wrote a post recently on how I am running my LTR successfully and am getting married soon, hope it can give you good insights: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/how-to-run-a-ltr-successfully-learnings-from-a-6-year-ltr.275202/ Its hard to give you specific advice if we don't know the...

She still has to be sufficiently attracted to meet you. If she makes it difficult for you to meet her, she is usually not worthwhile the effort. IL will go up or down depending on what she finds out about you as time progresses. While its good to admit your mistakes and work on your game, it...

Contrary to what has been preached here on this forum, anything less than sky high IL is not a red flag. Why should you be entitled to her time and energy if she doesn't know you well enough yet? Red flags are primarily saved for traits that you find are dealbreakers or indicators of a...

Like I said in the previous thread, he overcompensated being "alpha" because in reality he doesn't have options and is operating from a scarcity mindset. The woman consciously or unconciously picked up on this with how he handled the disrespect, which is why it led to a whole slew of playing the...

She made it easy for you to reschedule, go ahead and set up the date. Let us know how it goes.

That's because you expect nothing more from a woman than a hot bod and sex. Hold women to a higher standard in your mind and HB9 anxieties will be less of an issue.

Its a slippery slope if you let it get to you. Soon enough, your intimidated vibe will show and you will get less women showing interest. He won the genetics lottery, nothing much you can do about that. However, from what you wrote he seems to have 0 game. Your best play is to keep doing what...

You're taking the whole dominant thing too far when it comes to conflict management. When a woman crosses your boundaries, nip in the bud immediately. She even invites you out to talk but you ignored it and went no contact, which is pretty childish behavior. If you need time to cooldown...

I thought it would have been a good excuse invite her over to your place to "make something to eat"

The general consensus here is to avoid mentally damaged women and don't bother learning how to deal with them. Why bother what she is thinking when the only thing is to cut her off like cancer? However, if you are insistent on putting your energy into helping her "get better", go ahead. It is...

She claims to have trauma, complex PTSD, borderline personality disorder, and a whole slew of other acronyms. Nothing for you to learn here because you are dealing with a broken specimen. If you do learn game from this experience, don't be surprised all your future women have the same kind of...

Why bother asking for advice if you already made your decision? SMH some people

Try to smash girls that you actually desire. It will not be easy, the first one is always the hardest. Get that first notch and most of your insecurities will go away. Don't waste time with women who you are not attracted to.

Leading discussions during conflict, providing her a supportive space, running the household and stepping up to handling crises are the major ones I can think of. Basically big items that require a decision maker, the man should be one who is decisive and the woman should defer to his ultimate...

Agree with the last part. Attraction will never stay the same in an LTR, there are moments where my attraction wanes or I feel myself getting bored. Men and women have the misconception that attraction never decrease in an LTR, that is wrong. Which is why playing the field is important, once...

That is why having respect for you and your leadership is something you have vet ruthlessly in the beginning. A woman who does not respect you will not let you lead. Also, stay away from masculine women. They are better left for the effeminate simps.