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You can write an entire novel detailing all the various flakes, rationalize her behavior, etc. Ultimately it doesn't matter. Most often, it can be explained by low interest. Other times, who fvcking knows? There's no point in trying to understand the why.

I actually don't really follow either of these. People also say don't ask binary yes/no questions, but I do that all the time too. Some of this advice is low level.

I'm a hair over 6', I think like 6' 1/2" - and even find myself wishiong I was taller. Not out of a place of insecurity, I'm perfectly happy with my height. But if I had the ability to gain 2-3 more inches I would. I don't really blame him for doing it, if you have the $$ why not? Though I know...

This is the whole problem with the "self improvement" grind. It's a facade, a joke, and everyone gets it wrong. Everyone is ultimately doing self improvement for others, but they delude themselves and other people into thinking they're doing it for "themselves" which is a straight up lie -...

Street approaches are usually only viable in "3rd places" which are increasingly non-existent in the US/Canada, and one of the reasons why most places in the US are so miserable and soulless. Your best bet is dense downtown/historic districts around a lot of bars/restaurants/shops. College...

I've seen women on dating apps with a similar mentality to you described, only to see them again on seekingarrangements.com whoring themselves out to my friends. But it should be common knowledge women have "rules" for some men and not others.

This is actually not quite true. In the context of scoping out LTRs, they are do care about many different things (certainly more than things us), but when it comes to casual sex they are still almost as superficial as men are. If you're a 9/10 or 10/10 in looks the rest is moot. To answer OPs...

Iirc he is a musician and has run for city council (though anyone can do that).

I'm sick and tired of people complaining about dating apps.

Bumping this you're welcome

Well yes, but if you speak of critically of someone who isn't present but is otherwise characterized by tough love and out of a place of concern, is that inherently bad? If not, I don't get why I feel so guilty for it. The reason I avoid discussing certain things when said individual is around...

What do you think of this? I personally detest gossip, but among my close friends I find it very difficult to not talk about mutual friends when they're not around. I'm not shvt talking them and I try to actually defend them and explain why they do the things they do, going as far as to speak as...

They really don't understand. There is only girl I've ever dated who seemed to have genuine empathy and seeked to understand what I say. The rest will indeed gaslight you for having original thoughts.

Imo, it peaked in late 00s - early 10s. RSDs golden years were around this time. I still remember Julien Blancs infield footage around this time, 10-14, he was a literal pickup God, i can find his old compilation footage if anyone wants. It was truly incredible, and a total paradigm shift...

Incels? It's a single black man doing all of it.

Qualifications? Psychopathy, for being willing to manipulate people into thinking they need to pay you $2500 in order to not be a loser.

You'll probably want to scope out the crowd for the demographics, some of them are total sausage fests full of Arab men. There was two where I used to live, one was a dense walkable area by a bunch of bars/restaurants , it had mostly young liberal college students. The other hookah lounge was...

It could work as long as she has a nice place you can hang out at. Otherwise probably not.

It depends: if I was an otherwise a "normal" guy, but a virgin/incel, i'd fvck prostitutes. Probably several times. Then I'd go to festivals, concerts, clubs, take adderall/coke/MDMA get drunk and hit on women. Alcohol and drugs are really the secret to getting laid, and while they're obviously...

I actually think generalizations are a part of next-level nuance. In this example, the levels go like this: Level 1 - women are victims, they are the fairer sex and should be given the benefit of the doubt. Level 2 - women can be fact just as psychotic and abusive as men, be careful. Level 3 -...