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Becoming better looking did nothing for my ability/desire for women, beyond them giving obvious signs and making it easy to escalate. I was the same guy, just better looking. Nofap is the only thing that was able to change me on the inside. I fapped 3-4x a day for years, over a decade, so for...

Very insightful. Based off my looks at the time I could've been a slayer and you're right about the incel -> slayer path I took, but honestly I didn't bang the women I dated. I wanted an actual relationship, but if I wanted to smash a lot, I could've. I think the validation of knowing I could do...

If the girls have good personalities though - why dump?

Edit: Not to their knowledge, they didn't know the wedding date would be near when the pandemic started.

I did. The greatest redpill of my life was that looks make an insane difference for guys. Most of my life, I was invisible to women. When I got lean and really took care of myself, it was like being a celebrity. Tons of attention, women being extra nice, dates were ridiculously easy to escalate...

I used to find it difficult to see evidence of this but let me tell you a story.. There's this woman I know who when she was 27, met a guy off a dating app. This guy was a doctor around her age. In NYC. She herself is a highly accomplished career woman. After a year they got engaged, and they...

why is it so hard for you to believe that not all men learn game from reading stuff online? your insecurity is showing. imagine the varsity football captain who gets the hottest cheerleader, coming onto this forum for advice.. lmao.

Nah, this guy was a natural. I lived with him, we had all the same courses, he never spent time online. He would read books, but they would be heavy books like Machiavelli, business related books, etc. He was the type of guy who knew everyone. He definitely wasn't the type of person to post on...

I have seen him approach several times. One time we we were walking and ran into this girl that he had just met a while back. He barely knew her. I was silent, and he lead the conversation. It was like watching Jesus turn water into wine - this guy never stuttered, always had something...

This means you have a problem. It's like complaining that quitting cigarettes is a problem. There are people like me out there that never had an addiction to cigarettes in the first place, so there is no challenge at all because I never got addicted to them in the first place. That's how you...

Nofap doesn't give you tangible skills to become better with women. Let me explain.. When you masturbate to porn, your brain thinks you are actually having sex. It's a simulation, but your brain doesn't know the difference. With porn, men can easily see more variety of naked women in one hour...

What I suggested is not something I actually planned doing. I'm just theorizing as to how other people do it. I think this poster below captured it well though: Edit: I know these women are not good for me based on their behavior (promiscuity) but psychologically I am catching myself...

Nofap means zero exposure to sexual imagery and zero masturbation, period. The only thing that pumps your penis back and forth is a woman's holes or hands. Imagine a bearded viking with his battle axe, shield, heavy plate armor, in the cold winter on the frontlines of battle ready to either...

This guy didn't have a rotation though. We were roommates, I always knew who he was pursuing. Granted, he accidentally made out with some girl and admitted it to his GF who he was planning on marrying - she cheated on him as a result, and broke up with him. It messed him up pretty badly, and...

man, this was almost me last year. was really interested in this one woman and she admitted to a massive red flag. I avoided getting to know her, and over time got to know her a bit anyways and started catching feelings. can't imagine what I'd be doing right now if I actually pursued her...

Back in college a friend of mine would smash the hottest women. This guy was 6'0'' 200lbs lean, had all the characteristics of an alpha. He would **** women on first dates, even go after women with boyfriends, and he'd usually never have issues. Somehow, he'd get with women like that, and...

Can lack of a sh1t test indicate that she sees no incongruence and therefore doesn't feel the need to test you?

It's something I've been thinking about a lot. For me, in general when I am chubby I get zero looks from women, as if I'm invisible. Once I lose some fat I notice a gradual increase in attention from women. Initially I will catch women looking my way for a few seconds. Then as I get closer to...

How do you stop being intimidated by their beauty when you know this? That's one of my issues.

Good analysis. One of my college friends was a "gigachad" basically. I remember one time we were chatting after we graduated and he mentioned how some girl came up to him at work and he was like "you're too hot for me". This guy's selection process was interesting; he'd go after the baddest and...