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Update on this: employed evreything in this thread and last night seem better... she came over, cooked, kissed up on me and texted me way more than the last few weeks. When we were in bed however, I tried to iniciate sex and she shut that down pretty fast. It's been a week and a half since we...

This is very true. We've had a few conflicts before this month because of me drinking too much and she pretty much forgave it immediately. I deserve this and need to change but again, the needy behavior needs to go

Agreed. The drinking is definitely something i need to fix...it makes me an emotional mess which in turn is very unattractive and I get this. The whole thing is just new to me. In past relationships, there was red flags/signs earlier on. This is the first time where I can confidently say that...

I like this and agree. I admitted to her drinking has been an issue and something I am trying to work on. I've been talking about quitting for the last year or two even before meeting her as it hasn't done anything positive in my life. The thing is, she tells me she loves everything about me...

I think the hardest part to swallow is that a lot of this is my fault. My drinking can be a problem - Ive had issues with others and is definitely something i need to fix for myself. I don't act clear and level headed when I'm drunk nor do I like who i am - would kill me if i lost her because of...

This is exactly how I've been acting and she seems to be slowly warming up to me (pet names are slowly making their way back in after the blow out Friday) I've been initiating less (and noticed she starts texting more when this happens) and just being my normal self when I am with her. My logic...

Pretty standard story – met girl, moved too quickly. I’m 30 and she’s 23…we met on new years this year and instantly hit it off. It turns out her mom lived on the same street as my office so before I knew it, I was picking her up on the way home to play house almost everyday and dropping her...