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    Letting Girls Down Easily

    Again, why so angry? :) The angriest guys are the ones who can't get laid. Just sayin.' Instead, some guys spend all day talking to other guys on the forum. That's a wonderful substitute. Works for guys who are gay, or cuck. If it works for you, then so be it. With 5,000 posts in a year, the...
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    Letting Girls Down Easily

    It's easy to say that but when these girls are constantly giving you the evil eye, on the verge of tears, or otherwise creating stupid drama, it gets to be a hassle and a drag. It happens in work environments, at church, when I'm shopping, it's just endless. This is not to mention all of the...
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    Letting Girls Down Easily

    Why so angry? :)
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    Letting Girls Down Easily

    This is just a reminder of how difficult male female friendships are. Whichever party wants to make it more will eventually be frustrated and get their feelings hurt. I don't intentionally friend zone girls I just assume it's cool that we can be friends. No, it's not cool. They become angry. I...
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    JSIM Social Circle and Dating Thread

    I'm pretty selective about who I spend my time with. I'd rather spend time alone than spend time with an obnoxious, abrasive or annoying person. My tolerance for dumb people is very low. Most people are pretty eager to network and make new friends or to date someone new. So am I. I generally...
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    Letting Girls Down Easily

    My work schedule is pretty crazy and I travel a lot. I haven't been in any kind of a serious relationship in about 4 months. I'm selective about who I spend my time with, women included. I've found it is far worse to spend time with a dumb, mediocre person than to be alone. However, both my...
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    Attractiveness at age 52

    Most of my co-workers are significantly older. I know people about your age who look 15 years younger than their age (granted, not very many of them), but I also know 50 year olds who look 15 years older than their age. If you've taken care of your health and appearance, you might be pleasantly...
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    JSIM Social Circle and Dating Thread

    I've attended both meet up groups for 20 to 30's and also joined Facebook groups which are similar in nature. It's really striking how poorly many people age. The "young adults" are balding, wrinkling, and almost all of the women are noticeably overweight, and not just by a little bit. It's...
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    JSIM Social Circle and Dating Thread

    Based on my sexual innuendo thread, I think I probably do react conservatively to clear signs of sexual interest. Sometimes I get clearcut verbal signs of interest. But other times, facial expressions and body language are great tells as well. For example, several times a week, I'll have an...
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    JSIM Social Circle and Dating Thread

    I'm going to use this as a 'drop-in' journal, so I don't have to start a new thread for every topic I wish to discuss. I don't know about anyone else, but post college, it's been exceptionally difficult creating a new social circle. Some issues: 1. hot girls rarely join social circles. They...
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    Sexual Innuendo?

    Come to think of it, there was another woman recently, a real estate agent, who dropped some big time sexual innuendo. We were chatting and I told her about a previous sales job I had worked at. She said it was "boring." I said why? She said "I thought you were going to say you sold women's...
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    Eye fvcking the single mom

    It's not an ideal situation. She'll be talking about her kids all the time. And I do mean "all the time." As in, "I just dropped off my kids" or "I have to get back to my kids" or "my kids are at..". It's going to be a constant emotional drain and a distraction. It'll be impossible not to feel...
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    Sexual Innuendo?

    I was pretty much forced into throwing sexual innuendo back. It was too blatant not to. I forced myself not to laugh or engage. I was in "work mode" and perhaps avoiding #metoo mode. I think she #metooed me first though technically. She could've come back with "I didn't mean that!" and I...
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    Sexual Innuendo?

    I'm on a business trip out of town for the weekend and stopped in to a lovely little cafe near a college campus during a work break. There were a few hot gals there so I decided to stick around instead of popping in and out for coffee. I ordered a drink and then went to refill the water bottle...
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