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What about the girl I wrote about at the end of that post. How would you go about making it happen with her?

Il pat myself on the back if it’s all 3 at the same time in the same bed haha. Sounds made up I know, but it’s 100%, not like that all the time but this week it’s 3, it’s always either a feast or a famine

I’ve being doing a lot of observation since I started to follow this site and get advice from you all and I want to share what I noticed.... Wanting what you can’t have.... this week alone I had 3 girls offer me sex, two text me first and the third I txt out of the blue and after 5 texts she...

I’ve been messed over emotionally over making excuses for the bad behavior and only seeing good in them. As for financially or legally then I can’t say I have or would. That kind of behavior is to obvious and I couldn’t make excuses in my head for it. Would instantly make me loose all feelings...

I work and only have one day a week off, kept very busy so I neglected my social life somewhat. Don’t get to see my friends as much or meet new people (girls) will have to make some changes and work on the social aspect

I will check that out, thanks

Same again tonight but I cut it short, didn’t entertain it, my take on her is she wants attention off me and tries to make me suffer in the process. She dried up any small chance that I’d even entertain her again which did me a favor. Yeah if it’s this much hard work and bs now, imagine how it...

Well I ended up talking to her yesterday, she initiated and after she initiated she went to one word responses. Only full response I got from her is when I said I’m done with all this and to leave me be, I was getting full sentences then.... not good ones! Just her being the victim and me being...

How would you gauge which ones to “stalk” and which ones to act careless about at the start? I’m guess start with acting alof, throw a bit of interest and see do they follow up on it and chase. If not then chase a bit more yourself and judge the reaction, if they pull away you pull away. If...

Funny thing is, it’s said to act like you don’t care to a girl. I know people who chase and hound a girl and they get her, many a time. A girl I was good friends with loved it when a new guy practically staked her. And if he played it cool she would forget about him and on to the next. So if...

Your 100% right, I gave a reply to this a few comments down to someone else as well. She ticks all the boxes of your imagine of the perfect girl for you. Then you disregard her bad behavior and make excuses for it because if she ticks the boxes with looks then your going to tell yourself her...

What you said makes 100% sense. You meet a girl that ticks all the boxes as being you type looks wise. She gives you some attention and then you start to fall for mix of her looks and what you imagine her personality to be, you disregarded her bad behavior and make excuses because it goes...

Thanks for that...... no sleeping with her wouldn’t be an option, I think if someone has any kind of feelings for a girl and the girl messed them around then sleeping with them would only create more feelings and more attachment making the situation worse. It’s something I wouldn’t do unless I...

I don’t want to get into the lies as it’s something kind of personal, but I made small talk with someone I bumped into last night. Didn’t mention her but the person I spoke to did in the conversation. Said a few things and I realised what was going on with her keeping me sweet but rejecting...

Thanks, what I needed to hear! The term “hard next” is new to me, do you mean just cut her out of my life the same way I would drop a toxic friend? I’ve become good at that...... dropped many a toxic friend recently.

Thanks for all the replies and advice........ found out last night that she was lieing to me with a few things. I wasn’t talking to her but figured it out. She had something to gain from me and that’s the reason she kept me sweet and gave me hope. Annoyed at myself for letting myself get...

She throws a line and contacts me, acts like I have it in the bag, sees me and is all over me, then goes cold again. It’s like staying away from a drug. I’m usually take it or leave it with a girl, first time in 8 years I slipped his much. I can get it alright, but it’s to easy and I find that...

She made out in front of me because after she rejected me the second time I told her I was seeing someone. Still though, she had her chance, she has no right to get angry or upset. I could flirt with a girl in front of another girl but I couldn’t make out with them. I wouldn’t be that...

Thanks to all who gave me advice, here’s a quick update and some more advice be greatly appreciated. Short run down....... I like girl, girl likes me, girl plays extreme hard to get and rejects me twice. Next time I see the girl she’s all over me and then she kisses a guy in front of me to get...

Had her under control at the very start until I showed the tiniest bit of interest and that’s when the games started. Go ghost is my only option I think, she wants me then she can make an effort and if not then I save my sanity and frustration reading into bread crumbs. It’s not that hard, man...