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Uncontested divorce. I made a deal with her that her and I were happy with.

@EyeBRollin @Pierce.Manhammer @MtmVaott @Money & Muscle @patb @Bokanovsky @SargeMaximus @BoomToTheMoonAlice @Ricky I appreciate your answers so far. This thread is a brainstorming session and I like how we are drawing from our personal experiences. Based on my experience, and with a...

Considering the example I mentioned, why do you say that?

Perhaps when you stopped talking to her after an argument, she saw it as abandonment. The majority of adults are children cognitively, especially true for women. If there's a problem, it is a good opportunity to fix it. People respect a transition into a more rational state. You could have...

I don't know exactly why you are ghosting, but that aside, your neediness is a symptom of a problem. Why do you feel needy?

Can you please elaborate

Correct. I've seen it first hand while traveling abroad. What upgrade? Also, this is the thread that got derailed https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/why-is-ayn-rand-an-exception.278405/ If Ayn Rand could do it, then why say that women cannot think rationally? The same goes for a man...

Suppression: Being aware of your emotions, but not allowing your emotional state to guide your thought process. Temporarily disassociate with emotions in order to accomplish something. Example: not expressing any emotion in a poker game. Repression: Avoidance of emotions. Evading the...

Part One, The Symptom: When I say special, I mean it. As far as I know, I’m the first person who has ever made the following mistake. Back in April of 2020 I married a woman whom I was not attracted to in the sexual or romantic sense. For the first six months I suspected that the problem was...

@MtmVaott I think you mean to use the word 'repress' rather than 'suppress' Suppression is healthy and useful while repression is not

I made thread on this subject months ago but the topic was derailed. I believe women can think logically and suppress their emotions, but are inclined not to for a combination of evolutionary and social reasons. There is a common belief in the manosphere that irrationality is innate to women...

The exponential rate of insanity indicates that a correction is on the way.

Suppressing your emotions is constructive, repressing them is not.

The fundamental difference between justice and vengeance or tyranny is the presence of rationality. Pay attention when someone advocates for vengeance. What does that say about him/her?

I would evaluate a belief system by logic, both implied logic but also practicality.

Nothing necessarily wrong with these folks per se, however regardless of your circumstances, you are responsible for your environment/outcomes. Claiming innocence here is like begging for forgiveness for your poor life performance. I'm well aware that life is much harder for some than others...

You cannot have accountability without rationality.

Your environment is a reflection of your mind. If what you are writing is true, then this signals mental problems. I suggest you keep a journal and write in it daily. Poor mental health causes suffering, and suffering is not attractive. I put two attachments that should help clarify...

Try playing a game of chess when you're angry, you won't play as well. Emotions are automatic reactions that suppress reason. Reason, if powerful enough, suppresses emotion, and that's trait that makes one powerful.

“Honor is a fool’s prize. Glory is of no use to the dead.” -Darth Bane