I see your point. You need to really understand the person you're talking to by observing their behavior and your experiences with them. Red flags are just warning signs, not absolute deal-breakers. If you have an abundance outlook and don't obsess over one person, you'll be less willing to...
When someone has BPD, it's easy to label certain behaviors as "red flags" and immediately end the relationship. However, if she's attending therapy, adopting a growth mindset, and making progress in her mental health, then that would indicate resilience despite her diagnosis.
I think that using a "red flags" list in dating, aimed at spotting potential issues early on, can be a double-edged sword. On one hand, it's protective against entering harmful or unsatisfying relationships. On the other, it's fraught with ethical concerns, notably the dangers of...
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/1474704916682903
In the study "Sexual Regret: Tests of Competing Explanations of Sex Differences" by Kennair, Bendixen, and Buss study situations like yours through the lens of evolutionary psychology and sex differences in sexual regret...
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