@catsmeow2 I’m not targeting you because you clearly stated that you have a 3 date rule at least. My main gripe is with women making this decision on the first date as an excuse to serial date.
I have no issue with chemistry. My issue is when broken hopeless romantic women become serial daters and use finding “the spark” as an excuse to do so. At this point, you are just searching for a certain dark triad man and wasting guys time and money.
I don’t know your husband. Personally you could’ve given up and settled down. There’s a Netflix show about this called Sex/Life. I’m just giving you the type of msn you described in your description of the spark.
Not waste my time obviously. Either way, you are wasting a man’s time going in a...
This sounds like an attraction to a particular dark triad male like the Tinder Swindler/Christian Grey. These men are basically the white collar/more professional versions of "bad boys". Coach Greg Adams coined the term Tupac with a degree which I found hilarious too. These men carry...
I feel like this "chemistry", "spark", "vibe" is just a fancy way of saying I am attracted to psychopaths. I used to be so frustrated on receiving the "no spark" after the first date or getting ghosted, but then I started to notice that these girls stayed single or went thru broken relationship...
I don’t disagree with this point. My biggest gripe is that women tend to judge a guy’s vibe on the first or second date which I think is pointless and silly. IDK what magnificent spark you are looking for on the literal first date, but that’s insane. Sure, I could pull a psychopathic move and...
Classic Red Flag of a hopeless romantic timewaster on the apps. Any girl that hints at this or says the romantic relationship BS, gets an automatic ghost or left swipe from me.
What you are looking for doesn't exist and it's the reason most of these women end up getting owned by psychopathic...
You literally just proved my point. Your SMV in your late teens & early twenties is pretty cemented regardless of your physique or not. The only thing you can do is obtain status or basically brand yourself
I am black and I have never did anything with a black girl except get randomly kiss raped by one at a bar. Okay, I will say this lol. Black men, Asian women, and White men have a legitimate case for dating interracially IMHO. I do not understand why Middle Eastern and Hispanic men do it...
There are a lot of self-hating black men that date basically the white version of the black women they constantly complain about. Now I get if personal preference is a thing, but these men usually make dumb absolute statements about black women when confronted.
Lots of good points, but I...
All a woman has to do is put on makeup and cover her tramp stamp/tattoos and society will see her as innocent. Yes she’s hot but that’s all you see lol.
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