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    The issue with telling men to work on self improvement

    I kinda figured this was the case. I’ll admit I wasn’t all that attracted to her and she seemed pretty easy. I guess I didnt care how she responded. With that said I’m glad I experienced this with someone I didn’t care about. Now I know how to respond with a woman I’m actually interested in.
  2. J

    The issue with telling men to work on self improvement

    Well after her telling me what she did she asked me what I did. I’m open to hearing what I should’ve responded with.
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    The issue with telling men to work on self improvement

    This is me right now. However self improvement shouldn't be about women. Self improvement is to make you feel better about yourself. I think men need to understand this.
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    My Social Circle Is Spread Out

    I knew a few who were like this but I cut them out once I realized they were only down to kick it when they had problems in their relationships. And I compared them to the friends I still have who got married and started families, yet are still available within reason to hang out. It's a healthy...
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    The issue with telling men to work on self improvement

    I was doing some day drinking yesterday and met an off duty waitress from this really popping bar near me. She was just drinking at the bar next to me and we started talking. She asked me what I did and when I told her, I could visually see her interest drop. I'm a District Sales Manager for a...
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    The issue with telling men to work on self improvement

    Women don’t care about your $100k salary. They care about your job. A guy making $100k doing white collar **** will not pull women the same way a guy making $100k bartending or tattooing or club DJing would.
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    My Social Circle Is Spread Out

    The social circle I have where we used to roll up to the bar at least 10 deep have all scattered. And although we all keep in touch, we all now live in different places. I’m the guiltiest of them all having relocated 3 times in 6 years but most of us can still get together on occasion. Either I...
  8. J

    Men don't deserve their partners.

    She’s non binary. Get it right or you might offend someone.
  9. J

    What's the play here? IG cold DM

    Let us know when you succeed.
  10. J

    If you struggle getting women, get a wingman.

    There’s always THAT guy in the thread.
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    If you struggle getting women, get a wingman.

    If this is the case, I would just use that wingman as a distraction for the friend(s) of the woman I want. Your wingman just needs to be able to hold a conversation while you single out the woman you want. He doesn't have to have game necessarily. You could even assist by hyping up your friend...
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    If you struggle getting women, get a wingman.

    Agreed about finding a reliable wingman. Depending on where I am I have a few, some are even married so they’re just there for interference. And let’s be honest, going to a bar by yourself to hit on women makes you appear creepy and a bit of a loser.
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    If you struggle getting women, get a wingman.

    This may seem like a no brainer but I keep reading posts about dudes going out solo and failing. It makes pulling some ass so much easier. When my boy and I are out individually, most times nothing happens. But when we go out together, women just appear as in they approach us. We could be...
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    What's the play here? IG cold DM

    She's an attention ***** and you gave her a quick hit of dopamine. You’ve served your purpose for her.
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    Illuminating encounter the other night

    You just need to find a woman who doesn't aspire to be like a man. A romantic relationship only works if there are roles and the couple adhere to them.
  16. J

    Girl saying sex was bad as a **** test?

    She’s telling you to eat her out next time.
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    No sex yet after 5 dates

    She doesn’t know what she’s doing. You’re essentially dating a child. You’re gonna have to hold her hand throughout this entire process.
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    Women are sickening

    this is pretty true. Some women don’t want to be the inferior ones in the relationship. I used to pull a **** ton of Hooters type chicks while I myself was a waiter/bartender. Much of it is relatability and comfortability.
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    The Invisibility of Women Starts in Their 30s

    MANY of my female high school classmates have gone through that. Many single moms right now.
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