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    Thwarted by Safety Objections. Is there anything I Could Do Better?

    I’ve been out Nightgaming quite a bit since moving to a bigger city, and my wing and I have run into a pretty consistent issue. Whether in the club or on the street, we’ll talk to some girls that seem pretty down. We then invite them to an afterparty back at the house after being in the...
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    Pull: What do you watch on Netflix? What do you do for Fun?

    Recently had a Tinder date where I was able to go straight to her house. We had some drinks, and I was able to close it. A situation came up that I’ve encountered in the past, though. After we had a couple drinks, I went into her room. We sat on her bed, and she turned on the TV while we...
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    FR: A Pull & a Few Ls

    I’m definitely willing to put in the work. That’s a fantastic goal. So we know for a fact that losing weight helps with dancing. It’s a lot easier to move around and move athletically when you’re not carrying around all that extra weight. Keto and intermittent fasting make this effortless...
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    FR: A Pull & a Few Ls

    That’s good news. I thought I was screwed on my dancing abilities tbh lol.
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    FR: A Pull & a Few Ls

    So basically, you just take a class and get better over time? That sounds like it would solve most of my problems.
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    FR: A Pull & a Few Ls

    Most of my friends actually do smoke a lot of weed.. I’ve just never really done it unless socially. I find that after I smoke I can’t do anything productive the rest of the day haha
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    FR: A Pull & a Few Ls

    Hmm. You make a good point.
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    FR: A Pull & a Few Ls

    Same old story, huh? :rofl: I agree that the biggest hole in my game is not really being able to dance. Once I get my apartment situation sorted, this is the next biggest hole that needs to be plugged. It would seriously help if I were a better dancer. I’ve probably asked this question a...
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    FR: A Pull & a Few Ls

    Took quite a few Ls, but wanted to post this up to hold myself accountable. Had a pretty late start to the night due to some errands that I needed to run. We headed out around midnight. We decided to go to a local bar to start things off. The bar was packed, but there were a lot of instant...
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    What Do You Tell Your Family?

    That’s very interesting.. but I thought the narrative on SS was to not get married?
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    Missing Easy Approaches: Reflection/Remedy?

    I’m usually good about this… but I blew it today. I was really disappointed in myself. I on a 2 day resort vacation with a group of friends(they had it paid for so I thought I would go.) I saw some girls in swimsuits who were THICC, but I didn’t have the balls to talk to them. I need to get to...
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    What Do You Tell Your Family?

    I’m down, but where does one meet these Arab Latina and Indian women? As for Nashville women: I’ve had some very motivating successes here and there, and I’m willing to put in the work, but I will agree that the effort I’ve put in has been massive. Nashville locals can truly be the absolute...
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    What Do You Tell Your Family?

    Insightful response. I’ll definitely try some of these out in the future.
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    What Do You Tell Your Family?

    This is a true statement. The only exception to this is my black friends who are game-aware.
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    Road to Overemployed? Next Career Steps…

    Speaking to this point... I do think that the next step I should take is upskilling. It would be very advantageous for me to knock out my AWS Solutions Architect Associate and AWS Certified Developer Associate certifications this summer while I don't have a side job, because that makes me more...
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    What Do You Tell Your Family?

    This one may not be as relatable.. but as a black male I often get a lot of pushback from other black people about dating white girls. For example, every time I mention some of the white girls in Nashville to my black friends, I get told to "leave those white girls alone" lol. I spent some time...
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    What Do You Tell Your Family?

    These are great answers.
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    Road to Overemployed? Next Career Steps…

    I like the idea of a side hustle completely paying for my car note and car insurance, therefore letting me get out of debt and build my savings slightly faster since I can direct more of my income towards that. I also really like the idea of that side hustle money(I could probably make around...
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    Road to Overemployed? Next Career Steps…

    Yes, the job market is horrible right now. This would make what I would be attempting a very big risk. Taking a pay cut is bad. Also, even if I were dead set on something like this, it would be better to do after having more savings to mitigate that risk. The downside to staying is that I’ll be...
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    What Do You Tell Your Family?

    The older I get, the more I seem to get these questions lol. I’m now 27, and it seems that every time I see my mom she asks me if I have a girlfriend or if I plan on getting married. (They got married at 28.) I can’t exactly answer “I’m moving to a bigger city, doing cold approaches, making up...
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