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I have never had that experience. However the way I would play it is say, "okay, well cya around then," and attempt to leave. If its a **** test, she will try to stop you. If she doesn't stop you, then you know you haven't lost anything! A girl who is into you and not psychotic will not play...

The great thing is my game is A+ at the club. I make girls do some crazy **** and get high fives from other dudes while I'm grinding and playing with the girl haha. So if at any point I feel things aren't going my way, I will control the situation and end the club night. Also I have...

Neither of us have our own place unfortunately. I'm starting medical school in September so living at home right now with parents. She is living with her family. She resumes her classes next semester in a different country. I am going to Europe and another continent so ill be traveling for 3...

Hahaha, maybe I'll change plans tomorrow and say, "Something came up."

I decided to invite her out to the bar and club with me tomorrow night :)

Alright, I don't know what to counter-offer though. I have plans for tomorrow during day and then night too. Doing more family stuff tomorrow during the day and then going clubbing with one of my friends at night after the family stuff. Sunday I don't really like to go out and weeknights I go...

You're right, I am interested. But I can't integrate her into these plans specifically. I'm spending the evening with my best friend (actually cousin) and his wife. Also, other cousins may join us so can't invite a random girl to a family hangout. any other ideas? I don't know if I want to...

Update 4/12/2013 UPDATE 4/12/2013 Woke up this morning and a little later got a text message from this girl: She: Do you wanna do something tonight? 8:26 AM LOL, I already have plans for tonight so I'm going to tell her "Can't, I have plans for tonight." However, I'm not going to...

You may want to consider isolating him and then talking to him in a very serious tone: What the **** do you want? He'll say, "nothing man." You respond, "okay then, and if you pull any of this **** again, I am going to let go of all inhibitions and break your face. You will never be looked at...

I swear she looks like a man to me. I would never touch this nasty piece of ****. You may want to rethink your sexuality. Maybe you are gay. And I am not trying to be mean or joke around. I have nothing against homosexuals.

You are right. I am bitter and I never said I wasn't. But isn't the whole point of it to come off as uncaring even if you care? That's the goal isn't it? Or at least the first step in reaching a point where you really don't give a ****! But you bring up a great argument about the "treat...

Haha, good point. I'll keep the title of this post :) Great advice! I'll keep it in mind for future reference. 1. She has called me out previously when I go NC, annoying *****! She thinks I am angry if I don't respond and ignore her text. 2. When I text her, its very rare that she...

Zarky, how could I have handled this situation in a better way aside from not responding to her "why not" question?

Thanks for all the confidence guys! Your words make me feel much better about this interaction. I'm obviously not completely alpha yet, but I am trying to reach that point. Its a project in the works :) Also, should I re-title this post? "Here's how to deal with a flake." hahaha!

Awe **** yeah!!! Excellent analysis! Is it homo that I am in a way turned on by your post? More so because its a compliment for me :D Edit: the texts in my original post are word-for-word. No paraphrasing. They were copy/paste to here.

Makes me feel better. How does not replying to that question affect the situation? Could you please explain?

Thank you sir! I will follow that. Other DJs, please feel free to chime in. I appreciate the feedback. I'm sort of hoping someone will say something negative about it so I can fix that in the future hahah! Thank you all again, <3 SS!

Thanks! My current plan of action is NC. However I am willing to consider advice of the greater DJs on SS. Am I wrong about the NC? Should I get in touch with her?

Hey guys, so a girl contacted me Thursday night, setup a meet with me for Friday night, and then texts a cancellation message on Friday afternoon. Did I sound bitter or was it just straightforward and to the point? Normally I keep texting to a minimum. The initial text conversation to...

Haha she is ****ing other guys until your date. Better bring cover when you see her!