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This is DEFINITELY true. There were two women who didn't like me at first now they smile and say hi whenever they see me. It's because their coworkers were flirting with me, and I now have a higher social value.

Well there's the whole "don't sh!t where you eat" but as long as you don't become a stalker or cause a bunch of drama it should be ok. I just smile and hold eye contact with every good looking women I work with. They all flirt back, but I also don't have any interest in them, so it probably...

If its someone I just met I will say we should meet for drinks give me your number and we'll set something up. she will bring up a boyfriend if she has one then. otherwise if I have her number I ask her out early enough where she should tell me about her boyfriend. I think the point of...

I agree with both sides of the argument here. I'm not sure if I typed "actually". Left phone in car... But in the future I would say something like awesome and keep it short and not ask a question. When I say future I obviously mean other girls. Not beating myself up, just reminding myself...

I recently nexted a girl because she was displaying low IL. Haven't spoken or texted in about 2 weeks. She texted me yesterday: Nexted Girl: Hey haven't talked to you, how have you been? Dummy: Pretty good actually, going to blah blah blah tonight.... what are you up to? Nexted Girl...

Agree on all of the above, but here's something else you can do: Never call her or ask her out again.

Your next update better be about how you went out on a first date with a new chick.

Yes I have done this. It drives them crazy because you are saying you are not sexually attracted to them and they don't like that.

Call her and ask her out. Don't ask permission. Just do it. If she says no then she is not interested. Since she might be busy for exams, say "lets go out for drinks. What days are you free this week?". If she doesn't offer any days then I would stop calling and texting and if she contacts...

This is hilarious yet sad.

That's the problem. No sex after 3/4 dates means you were not alpha/aggressive enough and were afraid of losing her. She's not sure if it's a relationship or not because you haven't been aggressive enough.

It's too late for you. You already acted AFC. If you had acted like you did not care AT THE BEGINNING you might have had a chance. By acting AFC it shows that she made the right choice in dumping you. Plus, why would you want to be with someone that dumped you anyway? She obviously has poor...

Agree with all of the above. If you help ger she regains the frame and all of your NC has been wasted. Don't contact her.

I normally only use text/phone to set up dates so I guess I will minimize initiating contact and just see how it goes.

Best last ditch methodology: Don't initiate contact. Her interest level may rise and she might contact you (only if you haven't blown it). If she does contact you, ask her to go out (drinks, whatever). If she says no, it's over. If she doesn't contact you, it's obviously over. If you reach...

I figured. Seems similar to my other thread.

Met a girl, she gave me her number, I asked her out, she said she has a BF. I normally take this as a rejection and move on. She texted me this morning just to say hi and ask how my weekend went. What do you guys do in this situation? Do you ignore her or just respond nicely? I don't want a...

I almost never give compliments based on appearance. For one of my plates I just said something like "oh you look tan". I usually compliment when they tell me something of value, like they are close with their families ("always good to find a girl that has good values") and sh1t like that...

I'd rather not drop her, just pull back a little and treat her like the others. The problem is that I was concentrating on #1 and holding back on the other plates, and they started blowing up my phone. Nice problem to have I guess.