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A bit of background: I work as a musician and I'm supposed to play a piece with a female violnist in 10 days. I got her number, but we chatted for a bit and she seemed to brag about herself: that's she's a fast learner, doesn't have any stage anxiety, won numerous competitions and so on I kept...

I'd agree that average girls get a lot of attention, but when it comes to the really good looking ones, in my experience they don't get approached/hit on as much as you may think. I've got 2 really attractive female cousins, and have spent quite some time with them - they get approached less...

Thanks, that does sound like a good way to respond, I should've found this board much earlier. I'm not sure if I could've turned it around though, it sounds pretty mean in my language, almost as "I don't want to talk to you, back off" Translating it word for word in English makes it sound not...

Looking back it does sound pretty lame of me, that was almost a year ago. Yea, I was wondering if anyone else had similar experiences, appreciate your advice. I just didn't know at the time that turning down a chick could instantly turn her off.

You have to build more rapport imo, she has showed you interest, don't ignore her messages and set up a date.

I don't agree with asking her when she is free. I never ask women when are they free. "We should go for a drink/coffee/whatever on wednesday at 7pm" or something along those lines works best for me. If she genuinely can't make it, she will counteroffer if she has some real interest in you...

The Scandinavian countries are a totally different story. As you know, they're one of the most progressive places on earth, not to mention incredibly wealthy. Have you experienced the same in let's say Ukraine, Latvia, Poland?

I don't think you'll recieve many "no"s. Like ohrein said, it is kind of weak. You should assume you're good looking (without showing off) even if you aren't really.

I have some British pals. They say it's usually the low(er) skilled workers that are mostly against the EU, mainly because of immigration. The EU is well-known for its "Freedom of movement" policy, meaning anyone from Poland, Latvia or wherever can work in the UK or any other EU member without...

I thought about that too. It's just that its so rare here, nothing like in the US.

Contacting her only after 2 days is bit early imo. If she really had a great time with you, waiting a bit more to contact her would have driven her interest up.

Her leaving after engaging in conversation with you is a huge red flag. Do you recall saying or doing something that could have turned her off?

Another new member here, thought I'd share a story (from last year) and see what you guys think. I met this girl at a new year's eve party hosted by a good friend of mine. Was being my slightly ****y and funny self. Apparently she loved my sense of humor and starts up a convo, then starts...