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You sound like a nice guy. I too fall under this category. We "nice guys" have a lot to offer a girl but need to be careful about who we give our affections to. This girl definitely isn't worth it and I think you know that really. She sounds like a "taker". These girls will take and take and...

Agree how about just going out there into the real world and getting involved? Who needs/has time for this kind of crap anyway? Go and improve yourself and mix with good quality women.

Part time lover at best. Spin more plates.

I came out of a long relationship in January and I do think when you've been out of the single game for awhile it takes some time to find out the way you play it to get what you want and minimise the crap. Since figuring out my "strategy" i've been much happier, but its taken a few months of...

Maybe you're just a stud :D

Yeah but sex with random dudes who don't understand them or their needs will probably not satisfy them. Seems obvious really, a lot of women like the comfort of a man they like and trust just as much as sex. For many the two go hand in hand. You're viewing it too much from a male perspective...

Try going to a regular dance class....loads of single women there. Salsa, Jazz, rumba.....give them a go. It won't hurt your game to become a better dancer :rock: plus it's great fun.

You just need an ice-breaker dude, something like talking about a pose or asking "how did you find the class"? will do fine, you can go from there. You don't have anything to lose and no one should necessarily think you're hitting on them so go for it. The more practice you get the better...

Amen brother! This story has put a smile on my face :)

By the way, going to the gym isn't the only way of losing weight, some people (including me) find it quite boring. You could do dancing (solo or partner dance, many different kinds), racket sports (squash, tennis badminton), field sports (soccer, football, rugby, la cross)....there are loads of...

The sex will come at a price. Personally I'd walk away, too many warning signs and it seem like your instincts are happy. Do you need to bang a chick you don't like? Realise that you're quality and can do much better.

Last time she flaked did she suggest rearranging? If they flake without any suggestion of rearrangement then that normally shows low interest level, because if they were keen then they wouldn't want you to think they're not interested. If that's the case then it's time to cease pursuit and...

This is really good advice, and exactly my approach/what happened to me. I got out of a long relationship in january and went on a date with this girl, went really well, got along great but I probably came across as overly-needy, I was somewhat on the rebound even though it was me who broke...

Good post! Funny enough I normally dislike most 9's that I meet especially if it's out in clubs & bars, a majority of them seem like they only after attention and can seem shallow/have bad chat probably because they haven't had to use their personality to get attention from guys much. Give...