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    Call her out on her bs?

    That was the only thing really holding me back from calling her out.The fact that it has been 2 days since the incident and I run the risk of looking like an idiot bringing this up now.I agree that I should have done so at that very moment but I didn't even bother bringing it up.However,as I...
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    Call her out on her bs?

    Of course she is not.I have already made up my mind about not dating her anymore.This is more of an internal matter.Many times in the past I had hesitated to call women out just because i was into them and I really want to get rid of that attitude.
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    Call her out on her bs?

    Been dating this girl over the last month and a half.Long story short,she told me she wanted to see me the day before she left to see her parents (which was 3 days ago) and would let me know if she had the time to go out after packing her stuff.Turns out she had the time to go out but chose to...
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    Keep on dating or reject?

    Let's say you are dating a chick you are really into.First couple of dates/weeks go great.Then after that she goes cold,starts flaking and stops treating you the way you want to be treated/disrespects you.So you hang back,say **** this bull**** and keep on doing your thing.Next thing you...
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    How to raise/maintain high her interest level (Long Distance)

    Of course I'll keep spinning plates,as you said I am not in a relationship yet so it's always good to have more and possibly better options.I don't get the second one though.Are you telling me I shouldn't invest my time thinking about it and spend less time talking to her or that I shouldn't...
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    How to raise/maintain high her interest level (Long Distance)

    This will be kind of a long read so for anyone not feeling like reading the whole thing,any general advice would be greatly appreciated. I have been dating this girl for about a month and a half now.We live in the same town however she studies at another town about 4 hours away.During her...
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    How to react when she responds?

    I believe that what you mean by that is that I should take a step back,relax and not put that much thought into it,which I am completely fine with.It is true that we barely know each other so I can't really tell if this is something she does on a regular basis.The fact that this was the first...
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    How to react when she responds?

    So,last Saturday I went to a friend's birthday party.I was at the top of game that night and played my cards correctly so the girl I liked approached me first.Needless to say half a hour later we were making out,this dragged on through the whole night.She studies at another city,about 5 hours...
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    Girl who called me a friend asked me out after NC

    So I have known this girl from high school.We had been in the same friends group from time to time but that's just about it.Of course up to that point nothing was going on between us.A couple of years later (that is about 4 months ago) we end up hanging out with a couple of mutual friends.This...
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    Some days I struggle to find motivation

    Thanks man,appreciate the advice.However I don't believe that tiredness is the cause of my problem.Don't get me wrong,I am tired at times however I can cope with that.What I can't cope with at times is the fact that I don't have as much free time as I would like to.Working 45-50 hours a week and...
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    Some days I struggle to find motivation

    So,I am a 22 year old man who has a very busy weekly schedule.I work Monday to Friday in the logistics department of a factory.It's not an easy job but it pays well but drains a lot of my energy daily.To be honest I hate the job but I can now afford my very own car among many other things which...
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    Should I hit on ex's friend?

    So I was dating this girl about 4 months ago.The relationship was not serious and we broke things off 2 months in.Honestly I did not care about the break up because no feelings were involved between us whatsoever.I actually heard she moved in and was serious with her new boyfriend and I am glad...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 37 Going NC was not that hard.After months of her basically toying with me,keeping me on the hook we eventually had a talk where after confronting her for her intentions she told me that she wants to talk to me every now and then because I am a person she loves and...
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    Is it too much to ask her out again?

    I see your point.No need to set myself up for another rejection so i'll let this one pass unless she initiates and proposes a counter-offer for a date.Also,never tell a girl when I am free rather ask her when she is.Really appreciate the advice mates!
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    Is it too much to ask her out again?

    I actually don't have that much time.I am only free up to Sunday,next week my schedule is full plus I have a date with another girl planned next Tuesday.However I would really like to know if this one is not worth my time before proceeding to the next one and for that to happen we have to go on...
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    Is it too much to ask her out again?

    She was the one initiating the conversation most of the time.The only time I decided to text her first was today.
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    Is it too much to ask her out again?

    So,I have been talking to this girl.Last week I asked her out but she said that she could not because she had just left town.I told her that this week I will be spending time off work so I would be available any time of the day all week and we can do anything we want,to which she replied yes...
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    She stopped talking to me out of nowhere! (?)

    So,I was talking to this girl I am into last week.Some hours into texting,and while the conversation was going really well (basically her telling me she's into me as well) she stopped texting me.I assumed she fell asleep or something because it was late at night so I thought she would respond...
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    How to reject manipulative ex's date proposal?

    So,after our break up my ex has used me for attention on multiple occasions up to a point where I said I am not interested in anything less than a relationship and if that's not what you want I wish you all the best with your life but I'm outta here.After a couple of months she brings up an...
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