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    In a marriage, is it ok to....

    Been married for about 2 years... In a marriage, is it ok to.... 1. Express your anxities about the future....Tell your wife your scared about your parents dying, youself dying and her dying....my philosophy is nothing never last...& I recenty started getting depressed upon this...
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    Help? A Don Juan who needs more balance?

    What's up, I'm in a situation where I feel like I messed up with this girl who was really good to me. I've been dating her for 6 months but I've known her longer than that....She has cooked for me...bought me little things...an overall good girl..something I'm not used to...
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    Question about phone calls & gifts?

    1) If your girl has been calling 7 times a day for the past 3 months...How do you reduce it to say 2 times a week w/o her flipping out? How can I turn my situation around & get on the Doc Love plan where I call her once a week to set up a date and see her once a week. 1 call, 1 date a week...how...
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    Question?? Older guy dating younger girl?

    I'm 35 & the girl I'm talking to is 19....Her mom doen't like me because of my age....I tell her that I'm a college educated person with a decent job...but it doesn't matter to her.... The other day we talked on the phone and her mom expressed how she felt about me...she even asked if I...
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    A little lenghty but please give adivce???

    I've been w/ my lady for 5 years, we'll probably be getting married this year or next year, were planning. She is the bomb...All the things that you say a women should be, she is...giving (money, vacations, clothes, dinners), humorous, trustworthy, loveable....and more...However, she has to do...
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    Need Help.....

    This girl who I've known for a year and have been dating for several months is a great girl. Occasionally, she will cook for me or do little cute things for me but I get this overall sense that she does not trust me. She seems somewhat uncomfortable around me & I feel like were not any closer...
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    Am I slipping or what? Need Help for LTR?

    Situation: Been w/ my girl for 5 years, were engaged, I've followed the Don Juan principles meaning I try to be unpredictable, only seeing her 2-3 times a week, she does all type of stuff for me like buying me things, cooking, etc. etc...Everythings good but lately I've been feeling like I'm...
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    What to when a guy yells at your girlfriend?

    That is what I am saying...is he did yell at my girlfriend....At least, that is what she told me...She said if he would have said it in a nice manner...It would have been cool...but he said it in a threatening manner...She even said a few the people at the store...whispered to her...What is...
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    What to when a guy yells at your girlfriend?

    I've been dating my girl for a few years. She called me up and told me how her and a couple of friends went to the Mall. They were at this particular store. She went up to the employee to ask him a question and completely snapped out on her and said don't you see I'm busy, I'll talk to you in a...
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    Need DJ Help? ASAP-Please

    She's totally fine with me reading the letter. Matterfact, she suggested we read it together. I just play it real cool...I try to think what would most guys do....Most guys would be anti-DJ and trip out......I try to come off as if this dude is no competition which he is not... and to the...
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    Need DJ Help? ASAP-Please

    Just to add another point....She said if he is on some friendship stuff like I'm in Iraq...I just wanted to see how your doing...She wouldn't even care...She would just throw the letter away..and that's that's.....but she feels he's going to throw some "I'm going to die over here "type of...
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    Need DJ Help? ASAP-Please

    You do bring up a valid point. I guess what I'm looking at as well...is everything that she had done for me over all these year until this day...plus she even sacrificed a big time job accross the country to stay with me so we wouldn't be separated.....regardless....yous analysis is valid but...
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    Need DJ Help? ASAP-Please

    The last time they had contact was several years ago but she didn't accept his calls...she wouldn't even play me his voicemails....She has not physically seen him since like 2001 or something.....He cut her off and then he wanted to get back with her....She told me she has absolutely no interest...
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    Need DJ Help? ASAP-Please

    I've been with this girl for six years and were about to get married. Due to all the DJ principles, she has been the bomb. She has definately taken care of a player;buying me things, cooking for me.....everything....We had a recent issue that just came up....She has an ex that she has not...
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    Need Advice on Girlfriend complaining about my job?

    I feel like I'm not complaining but maybe I am....like I said...For example, if my boss did something to all of us...I'll tell her but not w/ the intentions of her getting pissed...I just want her to be like Damn...that's crazy...Doc Love says stay away from Negatives...since this seems to be...
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    Need Advice on Girlfriend complaining about my job?

    What's up...DJ's, I've been in a 4 year relationship....Everything has literally been the bomb due to all these principles...However, one thing I have noticed is when we conversate about my job she takes things personal and gets upset. For example, sometimes I'll tell her about the...
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    Marriage Proposal Recovery Question...Need Help

    Quick Background: - Dating for over 3 yrs. - Incredible (Is flexible, giver, humorous, 90%-Great /5% May get into an argument here or there..Nothing major..) - High-Powered career woman going to Ivy League school -Always doing things for me...Suprising me w/ gifts, cooking me dinner...You...
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    Important Question about Marriage...Need Help

    Thanks for all the advice...It really helped...
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    Important Question about Marriage...Need Help

    Quick Background: - Dating for over 3 yrs. - Just got engaged. - Incredible (Is flexible, giver, humorous, 90%-Great /5% May get into an argument here or there..Nothing major..) - High-Powered career woman going to Ivy League school -Always doing things for me...Suprising me w/...
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    Question about bring your girl around your male friends?

    Two Part Question? 1) Is it ok a long term relationship (4 years) to tell your girlfriend details about your close friend's relationships such as them cheating on their girlfriend or some of the dirt they do. Small Talk type of stuff. Alot of time she will tell me abou ther girlfriend's...
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