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Ok, first of all I ain't a woman hater - anyone following some of my past threads and what I do for a living will come to the same conclusion. While my topic sums up some of my past experiences with women as well (ask if you want details) here's what happened TODAY - just around an hour back...

I guess so, completely threw me for sure. I read this over a dozen times hoping it will sink in... Thank you for the words of encouragement sir, I appreciate it.

Not the first time I have panicked and crashed when I should have taken it easy and thought it through... :o We see to have focused on the second part, but the first part (about how to handle myself in that club environment) was my main questions... any advise there? Questions quoted below...

You know,after we parted ways (when she was no longer in sight) I thought of at least 7 things I could have said or done to make things go better... and i I know when I apologized and walked away she was taken aback as well, like she said something that she wished she had not (or more likely...

Thank you, will do. I'm getting laid elsewhere, long story so I wont go into it again. Please take my words exactly as I meant them: I am trying to make new friends and learn how to be "smooth". Have a good weekend people!

Hey! Am just starting this... so please go slow on me (links and general advise welcome of course). I've just started listening to the "60 years of Challenge" audio tapes. This is what happened to me today, I went into this pub that was totally packed, full of guys but more importantly...

There are exceptions... today i had an 18 year old, new to the industry and totally wild. I didnt ask but she told me she wanted to be spanked, choked, slapped and nips pinched - whats a man to do but sometimes follow what the girl says ;) She ****ing drained me (4 times on and off camera)...

Hey! Thanks for the tips, you are right I dont have to tell them from the beginning what I do... no real reason to hold up a sign. I like this! It even sounds a bit mysterious...! Who knows, if the person happens to be really special, i can just leave my past and continue on this new path...

Sex is the last thing on my mind. Went to a pub with a few pals, I was checking it out and a plumpy girl was checking me out. She was with a guy so I just had some fun holding eyes and as some posts on other threads said: be easy and chill, dont give a ****... so thats what i did, and i gave...

(replying in the order that I read your replies) @Cordon, what I kind of get the feeling is you would feel like you "saved someone" or a bunch of "someones" if I leave the industry. That is up to you dude, I got the same mentality from some reallll religious folk and I have nothing against...

@Thunder, if I do find the right person, and if my damn brain actually recognizes that its the right person.. I have no problem leaving the industry. Been there done that, no real biggie. Thank you again for responding my friend, I really appreciate your input no matter what.

You know Cordon, I thought I would just not respond to you and that would be that... but you do have a way of getting under a persons skin - and I'm a bit bored so... here's my reply (although not in full) and as polite as possible : Citation needed. I'm being positive about this, if the...

Thank you, I wont comment on much of what you said as I dont want even more negativity towards me but no, I don't harm others. I don't work with girls who have drug problems. Heck! I give to charity and am a wildlife conservationist!:rockon: The other day I had to cancel a 3 some with two...

Hey Thunder, Yes, there is some truth in Cordon's words but for the most part it looks like the only way to talk about that with him is to kind of debate it. While I am all for debating with friends the net is not the best place to do so... so like he said: What is the point? A friend sent me a...

@Thunder, "Fear of rejection." Yep. "Fear of imperfection" I guess so, but I could also define this as fear of losing an opportunity. Opportunity came knocking... and i didnt open the door. I would of course like to say the *perfect thing* at the right time, but I do understand the...

Black people are lazy Mexicans are stupid Muslims are terrorists old people are wise young people are stupid americans are stupid hindus are peaceful brazilians can dance white men can't jump @cordon, see how stupid the above is to generalize just based on a certain set of folk...

Also to be really honest I have two big fears: 1 - When approaching women, the fear of being shot down so badly that its embarrassing or I make a complete fool of myself. 2 - (and the reason I am seeking help here) that I finally meet the girl I want to have a relationship with but I am too...

Hey Thunder, Thanks for the words of encouragement as well as advise! Here's what happened today: Girl comes over... we did the shoot, I pop twice... then while copying the disks I start playing with her nipples and slowly started making out and we then went at it without the camera and I...

"you haven't really told us what kind of advice you're looking for. and that link you posted is full of viruses" Come on dude, the others see my questions and you dont? As for links with "full of viruses" that is total BS, I use pastie everyday and that image host is as safe as a new born baby...

Finally!Some proper advise that I CAN use. I have sooo many questions, I just got to do some stuff and will come back here and post. Thanks again!