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There have been studies done that show this helps reduce stress. Do you want less stress, or are you going to let social conditioning tell that it's wrong? I personally could not care less how other people think a "real man" behaves. Understanding there is no such thing helps that. Even so you...

There have been studies done that show this helps reduce stress. Do you want less stress, or are you going to let social conditioning tell that it's wrong? I personally could not care less how other people think a "real man" behaves. Understanding there is no such thing helps that. Even so you...

There have been studies done that show this helps reduce stress. Do you want less stress, or are you going to let social conditioning tell that it's wrong? I personally could not care less how other people think a "real man" behaves. Understanding there is no such thing helps that. Even so you...

There have been studies done that show this helps reduce stress. Do you want less stress, or are you going to let social conditioning tell that it's wrong? I personally could not care less how other people think a "real man" behaves. Understanding there is no such thing helps that. Even so you...

There have been studies done that show this helps reduce stress. Do you want less stress, or are you going to let social conditioning tell that it's wrong? I personally could not care less how other people think a "real man" behaves. Understanding there is no such thing helps that. Even so you...

Ya, kind of got that impression as well. Continuing to go after stupid low quality is a recurring mistake that I doubt he was aware of before though haha

I can't argue with that point, but it's not a bad thing to examine what he's doing wrong in order to get better at all this. as long as it isn't just anxiety provoking obsessiveness it can be constructive. He is dealing with flakiness often it seems so he must have some recurring mistakes he's...

that is a smart move. I think you will notice much more success and have to deal with way less flaking.

she didn't seem like anything special, I don't sense she is even much fun to be around for you. Is this accurate? If so I don't get why you would even care if she wants to see you or not. If it were me the second I got that "lol" as a response to flirty and understanding I would have lost interest.

I'm thinking your inner self came across, the insecure one replaying this date over and over to figure it out what happened. That's not a criticism, keep looking for things to improve, just expect girls to occasionally pick up on small inconsistencies between who you are and who you act like you...

well you guys seem to all agree that it was just me mis-interpreting and over thinking that text. I honestly don't recall the exact wording/structure that made it seem rude but I guess that's irrelevant, you're probably right. Usually the guy who sees something everyone else can't is just wrong...

good lord.. I can't even be annoyed I butchered the explanation of the situation. It does look completely trivial from my initial post.

Glad you guys are mature and can answer questions respectfully. If you think it's silly why not explain to me how you see it? Rolling eyes are not helpful, and there is nothing wrong with asking for others views. You know why girls think it's ok to be *****es to guys they are interested in...

I don't have to put up with disrespect for sex, I'm not dependent on her for that. I don't feel hurt, it's just not attractive for me when a girl thinks she can talk to me that way. Has nothing to do feelings, well maybe basic self respect. It's hard to explain why it was disrespectful unless...

This girl I've known for a while but never been friends with recently started chatting with me in a friendly way on fb. She later made up a reason to give her # and I've been texting her the past few days. I didn't care to limit it because I wasn't going to try and make anything happen. This was...

No offense to the OP but he doesn't come across as someone who has a very great education. Ok, there is no way to say that without being offensive but it's pretty clear. That or he doesn't care to use it when he's on the Internet. I'm guessing it was an employees meeting at a restaurant or...

Wait.... WHAT? how do you even.... I thought you meant ever. Ya bro, that's indicitive of some kind of serious mental illness I wouldn't dream of defending it if I read that properly. For more reasonable number of partners I stand by what I said. But no, that's not cognitive dissonance that's...

First, I'm not a licensed counselor, so this purely my speculation. However, you don't seem like you have any personality disorder or anything, it just isn't easy to change your core beliefs overnight. Those are beleifs that we don't even actively think about, things like "rapists are bad...

bro 12 ****s is honestly mild these girls are lying to you. Girls suck **** homie, it's not that big of deal. You're feeling cognitive dissonance brought on by the church telling people sex is a sin. Sex is natural, that's why you enjoy doing it, women are no different and when you really look...

Had an almost identical situation. This girl was a bartender that my friend (who I was with) knew. He introduced her to me, and I said "Nice to meet you, I'm ____" She responded by saying "EWWW" like a child. I looked her dead in the eyes and said "Excuse me?" with the tone a father uses when...