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Hey guys, for the last few years I have been in a relationship and seem to have forgotton all of the 'rules' and taken a very 'carefree' approach to dating and in hindsight have broken a few rules re timing and also the timing issue has been skewed by me sleeping with people on the first date...

What are people's thoughts on the purpose of this site? I have been reading and taking advice from this site and coupling it with going out and putting the advice into action, which in my eyes is one of the main purposes of it. You read the stories, successes and failures of others and then...

Neil there are a lot of issues in the initial story and one or two things that worry me in the subsequent responses you have given. I can absolutely appreciate the investment that you have made in relation to this women, in these areas I assume: time, money and emotion. I understand that it...

So...I met this girl in a club about 4 weeks ago. We met and couldnt go back to her place (because there were people staying at her house, it has subsequently transpired that it maybe because of her ex) so we ended up trying three hotels for a room and finally found one. The obvious happens and...

Getting the number is IMPORTANT for obvious reasons, but the way in which you get the number is probably more important. You must demonstrate that you are assertive - dont ask if you can go out with the girl, be decisive and say something like 'What is your number, it has been good chatting to...

Has anyone else found that in a relationship their girlfriend talks A LOT about and questions your feelings towards her. She has said she has issues and so I am pretty sure that she is insecure about a lot of things but she always asks 'how are you feeling' or 'why have you gone quiet on me' (if...

Why is it that women cant just 'be' in a relationship, and at a certain point into the relationship they need to know where it is going and if they are investing too much in you? I recently came out of a relationship and the down fall was that she started talking about her feelings and how i...

I didnt explain that very well....the point i am trying to make is that a woman will/may call you a jerk but will stay with you. As soon as you start showing traits of an AFC they will be outa there! Trust me! I think a lot of people on here will agree with me!

Women say different things to how they act and how they feel!

Again, listen to KontrollerX, I have seen and had some good advice from him. Plus I had oneitis and was in a similar (I didnt hear things as bad as I dont thin about being with you or dont see us together) and you NEED to walk away, she doesnt respect you....! The more you go back = less respect...

A few things just to help you with your decision, although it seems that you have already made your mind up. If you do go for the girl with the bf it is a higher chance that you will just be rejected outright irrespective of your 'game' because she will be committed to her current relationship...

In this situation you have to choose which ONE to go with, you cannot go with both because even if they werent friends it would 'come out' that you were trying to hit on two girls from the same class - mistake! In terms of which one you go for, obviously the one with the boyfriend will be harder...

Pretty much agree with everyone on this one, you should NEVER ask the girl to be your girlfriend and as shes witholding sex youre doing something wrong here! You havent given enough info here but you need to hang back, be totally nonchalent, tease and act as if youre not fussed about sex...

Hey guys, Recently got back together with someone, we were too intense and recognised that we were starting to resent each other so we took a chill pill for a few weeks and are back seeing each other but less and its really cool. BUT she has been saying things such as miss you and...

Further to that...she did say the other week...'i think im falling for you'...

Hey guys, Just a quick bit of advice needed...was wondering how to move from a dating stage to an exclusive stage and the transition and also the interpretation of what she has said. I have been seeing a girl for almost two months now and not sure whether I should move in for the exclusive...

Any ideas guys....?

I started texting this girl but didnt meet her for a week or so, subsequent to this i have seen her twice in two-three weeks (one of which was only a brief meeting). But, i looked through my phone and saw some sort of contact (phone or text), on average every 2-3 days, I was just wondering what...

This seems like a wise way to approach it...thanks...any other ideas guys

Any ideas guys?