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well, the thing is that im talking to some girls too and i'd only think about getting back with her if she brings that up. (remember: shes the one that started the initiating after a ~2-3 months period of little/no contact). i just ask because if she wants to be JUST friends, then i wont even...

So there's a girl that I dated a while back.. We were both going through some things and broke up and haven't talked in a while. She recently started initiating again.. I've been keeping conversations light/friendly when she initiates.. Anyway, something happened to her and i said something to...

Thanks for the responses. One caveat is that I feel like I was the one that blew it before.. I did everything that I wasn't supposed to do: told her my feelings too early, acted too needy, etc etc and it sort of made her lose interest/push her away.. Now I'm just a much different person and no...

What you guys said makes sense.. So really there isnt much for me to do but sit back and chill?

So there was a girl that i dated/got very close to at the beginning of the year. After about 2 or so months, she told me that she "just doesnt feel sure about me right now" and just called the whole thing off.. After that, I went NC for a while and now been a few months and she's started to...

also, theres another girl that ive been kinda talking to. if i bring her to the group hangouts, do you guys think it'll make the first girl jealous/raise my value in her eyes, or should i not do that?

i guess what makes it hard for me to completely move on is that, for example, yesterday we hung out a big group, and I kept on catching her looking over/making eye contact with me.. I just feel like she does like me, but she just felt pressured by me to move forward and that led her to...

Thanks for your thoughts. The thing is, I'll see her every week because we have the same friend group. So it's impossible to just completely disappear. Also, I don't want to deliberately not talk to her when I see her, so I still try to be friendly to her. So given that context, I think the...

bump? anybody else please? thanks.

Thanks guys. That makes sense. Also, we have the same friend group and I'll probably still see her around a lot. How should I act around her? I don't want to deliberately be more aloof or avoid her because that'll let her know that I'm butthurt and affected by the situation. Any other...

So there's this girl that I've been talking to a lot. I liked her a lot, and she knew it, and she sort of was confused/mixed about her feelings for me. Her friends warned me to give her time and let her feelings develop on their own. But I sort of got impatient and pretty much forced her to...

lol don't cheat. youre a better man than that.

thanks for the reply. like i said, 3 years ago, i flat out told the girl that i liked her. obviously, this time around im not gonna say any of that. ill just go for it, have a good time, and go in for the kiss when i feel its right, and just go from there. is that the right approach?

well.. 3 years ago i was an 18 year old college freshman that didnt know anything... now im a man who's getting ready to go out into the real world. over the past 3 years, a lot has changed, and it's reflected itself in the way that i handle itself/my confidence. i was talking to her and she...

Three years ago, I was a total AFC and told a girl that I liked her. she told me that she that she wanted to be "friends for now." Since then, I've discovered this site, and worked to change/better myself. I think she's noticed this change too. And recently we've started talking again...

brah. this isn't rocket science. just take her out for a drink and go from there.

Lol you guys are pros at this.

Gentlemen, am I reading too much into things, or is she hinting at something?

@Desdinova, thanks for the response. But I'm not as clueless as you make me out to be. I do look at the DJ bible. This is a girl that I actually met randomly at the bus stop and made small talk/got her number. I am "spinning other plates" as well and I'm not "*****footing." IT's just that I...

^ thanks for the responses. @Destinova, what would you say is the optimal way to handle the time before I leave?