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Stuff happens. Based on my own experiences, I can imagine this. In adult working world social circles, many times women will get offers from multiple men in the same social circles. I have seen this happen as well. It's up to the women how much they get around. In many cases in social circles...

25? I'm 33. Speaking of @AmsterdamAssassin, he told me yesterday that if I were to join a social group, I'd figure out which female members were open to getting hit on within a month (but he said most men would figure it out within 5-10 days). He was giving me way too much credit (with his...

Tell me about it (college broads being able to get as much sex as they want). I've mentioned on here that my freshman year clique in college had 2 clams and 6 sausages. One of the clams had sex with 2 of those sausages. Even within her own clique, she got around.

On a college campus, females can get as much sex as they want. The same applies for women who aren't enrolled in college (either college grads or non-college grads). Most women on campus aren't overly promiscuous though there are some who will put up a decent notch count. A lot of women will get...

I was the freaky creep of my own family from toddlerhood throughout adolescence, hoss... I had a violent, malignant mother and a father who personified "simp", long before that word was in wide circulation, and being weird and goofy was a defense mechanism: If I didn't seem like a potential...

The excuses never end with you.

With all due respect, you'll never understand what I go through unless you also were viewed as the freaky creep of your high school (or freaky creep of your college major department). Rejection stings a lot more when you have a history of getting rejected for being the freaky creep of your...

Being 8 years younger than you, the social skills erosion had gotten worse by the time I was in college. I saw a similar pattern to the one you described (despite the stereotype of college men having casual sex galore, most sexually active male classmates got their sex from a girlfriend). I've...

Then stop allowing your self worth to depend on outside stimuli. The problem is, you don't think you are worth anything and need outside stimuli and validation to boost your value internally. That's a recipe for failure and it needs to change if you want to be successful at anything, not just...

I've done some thinking on the topic of ask outs/rejection/panic attacks (that's the good thing about being in the same job for 5 years: your tasks become 2nd nature, thus giving you time to think about personal stuff) There's both good news and bad news. The good news: I fully believe my...

No, that's not what you're saying. You say: If you mean that YOU are unable to stay in a group where someone rejected you, you should've written: "To apply your point on a broader scale, any time I get rejected by a woman through a social activity I partake in, I then have to quit whatever...

I have less luck then you do and I understand where you are coming from. However, if I thought like you, then I would have resigned from my job. What I'm saying, is sometimes you have to roll with the punches. Sometimes life has a way of helping you out when everything is going wrong and...

I'm aware not everyone would quit a social group over a rejection. All I'm saying is I would quit the group. As for why, a guy with as much luck as you wouldn't understand. When every rejection from classmates in middle school/high school/college was along the lines of "Ew, no, you're the freak...

It's OVER for HotGirlUStudentCels.

My God man...have some respect for yourself

I did see the writing on the wall throughout my college years (2001-2005) that inceldom was going to become common. One of the things I saw on campus is that most men who tried to live the "player" lifestyle and seduce numerous women were generally sexless men. When I say generally sexless...

It's a simple fact young broads are at high risk of getting pregnant. No amount of rationalization will change that fact. One time in college, I made a young woman I met on a dating/hookup website provide medical documentation proving she was on birth control before we had sex. She obliged...

Pretty sure a major reason for Gen Y/Z sexlessness is the fact technology made a lot of Gen Y/Z socially awkward. You (one of the oldest Millennials) have said before that even in your college years, you started to see the writing on the wall that inceldom would become common (as a lot of male...

Why did people view you as a freaky creep?

I went to a therapist this summer in an attempt to address many issues (one of which being my fear of rejection). He wasn't of much help (on the rejection part at least) I'm pretty sure my intense fear of rejection is rooted in my past. I was viewed as the freaky creep of the school in middle...