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It's been said on this forum that a woman will no longer settle for an average man because gone are the days when a woman absolutely needed a man for survival. Your post (about how the woman you know has only gotten casual sex on apps; nothing close to marriage) illustrates the flipside: Just...

This is true at a high level. However, it is worth examining some of the details. Some problems may emerge in the "living his life" part of it. As a result, that will make finding longer term relationships more difficult. A lot of unattached men do not have a day-to-day routine that is going to...

Great worded post Still on reflection of being in London and surrounded by middle/upper classes I still think increasing options is tough for the vast majority of men if they live in a competitive city . Looking at the view of London a city which is full of roughly 200,000 millionaires being a...

I think you're spot on but there is a flipside to what you're saying. Those things won't matter if you're dealing with a down-to-earth chick who really digs you. If you're trying to date a bougie chick, higher educated chick, or IG model type then yeah those things will matter a lot more. The...

I have known women in real life that have had the same thing happen to them. I have a female acquaintance who has a similar life story. She's now in her late 30s but what I am about to describe has been happening throughout her 30s. She's mediocre looking and I think most men would probably...

We're similar in height. Interestingly, I never recall my height being the reason broads have treated me poorly. Possibly because of all the other baggage I have working against me.

My sense is that this is likely a temporarily feeling. I think you are feeling the after effects of the end of a bad relationship. You did pick a subpar partner for an LTR. You acknowledge that she added some value to your life. Her abusiveness and some other bad traits ultimately caused the...

@PlatoPacks23 What is mentioned here is exactly what is going on. Women, even unattractive ones, literally have entire rotations of men that they are talking to at any given period of time. The problem is that a woman will entertain all of these men, who all think they are progressing with her...

Good point to bring up. I'll offer some takes. I agree that this advice made sense in the days of flip phones and candy bar phones. Sending text messages was not easy on those devices. Apple introduced the iPhone in 2007, though the Blackberry had preceded it. The iPhone was the smartphone...

We all can feel this way at times. Your daughter is your focus. Having a kid is great. I think the key is to always be social with them. Don’t lose those skills. Flirt with all of them even the old ladies for practice I was shy in school and didn’t grow up with sisters or even many women...

Seems like you're a type of dude who would benefit more by meeting and talking to women in some other social envinronments outside of night clubs. Heck, you're in college, there must be many types of socializing out there, where you can actually talk to women and where they can hear what you're...

What gets said in your typical conversation?

It gets tricky when you transition from just drunken hookups to actually conversing. That's what brought me here years ago. It may be the topics you discuss. Anything routine like school, jobs, where are you from, how many siblings, etc. will dry a woman's vag like a summer day in Phoenix...

Older men = more resources. So it makes sense that up untill recently women of all ages went for older men. But, nowadays it's a different ballgame. An older woman with enough resources to "do her thing " in life only needs a man for pleasure. So you can be a broke dead beat, as long as you...

Theoretical concepts don't play out in the real world neatly 100% of the time. A 'cougar' is a woman who pursues sexual relationships with men 10+ years younger. She may or may not initiate the interaction, but she's receptive if the man is the initial initiator. The stereotype of a cougar is...

You care too much about the outcome and the women are sensing it Women are highly socially adept they notice very subtle stuff most men aren't even aware of , the second she gets a sense your trying too hard or want something from her she isn't yet ready to give she's going to give you a hard...

To avoid any personal risks, let’s just say someone I know lives with his parents in his late 20s. He had a girlfriend for seven years or so, and they met in college. While she moved into her own apartment, got her own car, and started working for a big firm downtown of my city, he still lives...

Most men can relate to this. So many men come home from the bars in the early morning hours pissed off that they didn't get laid or arrange a date at the bar that night. I can relate. I went to a school I have called "Hot Girl U" on here many times. I selected to attend this school in part for...

Not true at all. If a middle aged or older man has hip/knee/back problems, he's going to have physical problems walking around malls, walking out on streets, or spending time on urban walking paths/in parks looking for approach options. Many middle aged or older men have orthopedic issues. A...

The really hot ones can be exhausting. I found this out in high school/college… the best girlfriend/wife types were the female athletes ( in my opinion)… I was hooking up with a girl that was probably a 9… back then she was obsessed with MySpace and getting pictures up… it took her hours to...