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im not that dense lol. I know he likes me, I’m just thrown off by him requesting to act like I love him. I could see if he said act like you like me, but love? I thought he just used the L-word for an ego stroke.

hmmm I think you’re spot on. He’s a decent guy so I think he knows he wouldn’t be an asset. I just got a raise and a promotion at my job. So it’s not an ego stroke, why ask me to “love him” for a few minutes? Is he projecting that he loves me? Idk it’s just so weird lol.

I was with my FWB last night and we got a little drunk. We’ve been doing this since late May/June btw. He was holding my hand while in the Uber ride home. We start making out (fully clothed btw) and then he turns to me, looks at me and says, ( I can’t remember if he said just love or in love)...

im a girl lol

busy for over a month? nah. Back in September I went to a cookout with him and his friends. He was pretty drunk and was all over me. Hands around my waist, holding my hand m, etc. He turned to me and said, “why are you so awesome? You’re beautiful, smart, funny. I really like you. I don’t want...

haha thanks. that’s a good idea to tell him how I’d like it too. So if the sex was good, we got along well enough for him to surprise me with something I like and forehead kisses then why the distance? I thought we were having fun.

Okay, so I’ve been hooking up with this guys or months (a FWB – we used to date/sleep together actually about 5 years ago) We were fooling around and doing everything but sex up until recently. My fwb tends to enjoy what I would consider slower sex. Over a month ago ago were in the lotus...

it’s just 3 of them.

Actually, I don’t think he has oneitis. Today his friend posted a story of all the guys out and the guy I’m seeing is in the background talking about his ex. He’s talking about their breakup then said, “I’ve talked to her a little bit...but...whatever” and then the guys start laughing. So to me...

yea, but then HE got mad and said he didn’t want to do this anymore when she reached out to reconcile and they had an argument. So in turn he broke up with her. Doesn’t this make him the dumper?

from my understanding our mutual friend said that the ex has responded pleasantly. So why isn’t the guy I’m seeing making more of an effort if he wants her back. Since he’s not I’m thinking he doesn’t want her back.

Hmm but can’t it just be lingering feeling (normal after a breakup) ? If he wanted her back he would’ve gotten back with her.

how is oneitis? If he wanted her back he just would go back but he’s not.

I just figured he had some lingering feelings (normal after a breakup), but that he doesn’t want her back.

She broke up with him first 2 months ago and in the process of talking things out they got in a bad argument that night, and according to my friend, the guy I’m seeing just got angry and called it off. I do know right before the big blow he went to her mother for advice. He said he didn’t know...

Well this isn’t about me, haha. It’s about a guy I’m seeing and his ex who he’s been in contact with.

Really? But maybe these two are genuinely just friendly with another?

Sorry if I’m in the wrong place but I needed a man’s advice so I came here... I know women say that they can be friends with an ex, but can men? I’ve been seeing this guy for about a month. I know he contacted his ex a few weeks ago. He couldn’t find something of his so he texted her and...