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A wise man once told me: "To avoid failure, when approaching a woman stop thinking if she is going to like you, and start thinking if you are going to like her" Now that is a whole different mindset.

I was talking about style, not about syntax, you bum. And go back to your original post which wasn't spell-checked; you spell like a dyslexic on amphetamine, fool!

:rofl: Failing as in failing to hookup? failing to be in a relationship? failing to approach women? Not sure what the DJ boot camp is, but IMO, the best way to learn is to find a guy that seem to have the "it" factor with women and emulate what he is doing...or better yet, get him to coach you.

See it wasn't that hard to give constructive criticism. I get your point, and appreciate it. Most people learn from their mistakes. I will do the same. The difference being I decided to share mine on a forum. But you had to blow it didn't you? OK, now enough of this sh*t. Stop barking at my...

I think the whole writing style went 6 feet over your head. No worries, I am used to dealing with illiterates.

Woke up this morning, having flashback of our good times, of her smile, of her laughter, of the places we have been to together. This is what got me every time I would stop talking to her. This time I will weather the imagery storm and distract myself with something else.

Yeah, keep on telling yourself that, maybe one day you will truly believe it. I appreciate your feedback and encouragements. Thanks.

Not sure what I miss anymore. Hahaha, love that. The grim summary this thread thus far. Sad but fcuking true. On the other side, 6 month ago, she was my biggest mistake, now she's his biggest problem.

I asked her the exact same thing. "What happens if the guy you want to get rid of says yes?" Here is her logic. When she knows for sure that the guy doesn't want to marry her, this is how shes gets rid of him. If he happens to say yes...she will find another excuse before the wedding to drop...

Fcuk she disgusts me brother....but somehow, sometimes, I still miss that b*tch. Rather I still miss who she was pretending to be. How would I have loved for that imaginary girl that she custom tailored to my fantasies to exist for real. This is the women I fell in love with. But alas, she...

I a pretty sure she was honest about getting married for the first three years. What she wasn't honest about was all the rest, lol Although the "marriage ultimatum" was just a ruse to break with me as she knew I would say no. The b*tch even told me once, after we broke up, "the way I get rid...

She was no wifey material. Trust me on this one brother. I will publish the rest tomorrow. I am glad I escaped this one.

Hence the existence of this whole thread :)

Like one great philosopher inspired me to write: Wait stringpuller, you just dissed me? I'm perplexed compliment me on a line, insult me in the next, Beta and modern cuckholdry in one, i'm impressed, damn Suave? sure you might pretend you're the best, man but if smoothness was a jelly, you'd...

*Lovebombing* I love that expression. That is exactly how I would describe her behavior. Funny thing is that the lovebombing was only via text messages. In real life she was somewhat cold-ish and not as affectionate. I always told her. You are like two different persons. The text messaging...

I will post the rest of the posts tomorrow and the TLDR, sorry.

Very good catch. She was a pathological liar and so manipulative that it would not surprise me. She may have acted inexperienced as well.

I am not sure I understand the question. If you mean why did I date her if I did not intend to marry her or move there, well, at the beginning it was nothing serious really, but then, as our relationship got more serious, I decided to sponsor her instead of marriage.

Thanks Black Widow, you described exactly how I feel. When I resume the story, I will share my present situation. I called you and left you a thank you message for your encouragement.

This.