UPDATE :
Just received another message from her... saying she had been discussing me all day with her best friend who came into town and she thot she wud mesg and say "Hi".... i havent responded to the mesg as yet.. (been a day)
Guess NC is working.... honestly i didnt expect her to be getting...
FYI - ever since the break up happened... and i realized what had caused it and that i had sumwhat reduced being the person i was in the beginning of the relationship... i immediately and slowly went back to being a lil bit of a jerk and being ****y funny and teasing her in all her calls... we...
I guess i need to give u guys a lil bit more perspective on the situation....
U guys are getting it all wrong...
SO she breaks up... i dont make a single contact... she keeps trying to be in touch... tells me she misses me a couple of times when she sees me online.. keeps calling me.. tells me...
No offence taken ACCENSION...
why dont u share ur "mature" views wid us....
Playing the game is a lot of fun... but the true test of a DJ is in times of distress AKA Heartbreak !!!
and to answer what i intend to do after NO CONTACT :
well the thing is.... if i go for 60 days without any contact what so ever... and continue improving my life... i would have moved on anyway...
If in this 60 day period.. she decides to contact me... i wont pick up atleast the 1st few...
Well guys the thing is.... I really loved her... wanted an LTR with her... things were going great... but i ****ed up coz sumwhere down the line i forgot all DJ skills and gave her too much attention....
To cut a long story short... interest levels fell and she decided to break up...
Now...
Day 3
Was seeing this girl for a year.. got dumped... yes i aint ashamed to admit it... had all the signs of interest levels falling.... never saw em coming... i guess oneitis is the biggest enemy of any relationship !
Anyways... cutting the story short... initiated "No Contact"...
Day 3
Was seeing this girl for a year.. got dumped... yes i aint ashamed to admit it... had all the signs of interest levels falling.... never saw em coming... i guess oneitis is the biggest enemy of any relationship !
Anyways... cutting the story short... initiated "No Contact"...
Well thanks for the insight but i happen to be friends with most of her friends and know who all went on that trip.... unfortunately.... she didnt go with any dude... would have been a lot easier to dump her ass if she had
Wassup people...
Just need sum advice from the Masters..
Had an awesome relationship with this woman.... for about a year...
All of a sudden she asked for a break... 2 days later break up...
I immediately stopped all communication... but started receiving atleast 1 call or message...
IGETIT..... i mean i actually get it... hehehehe... Awesome post !!!!!!!!!
Honestly my take on the thing was absolutely the same... the relationship broke apart only coz the "attraction" faded away... the very essence of the relationship died...
There were enough signs which i honestly...
I respect each and every word of advise coming from you guys.. thanks...
what i've decided is to not make any contact WHATSOEVER for 2 weeks and then take it from there...
All this effort only because it really was beautiful and is soo worth it.... had enuf relations in life to recognize...
You guys aint getting the point....
Fine i used the DJ tactics and got the woman... we had an awesome relation... now she broke up wid me... for no apparent reason... maybe just PMS
anywayz... after a few days she called... i asked her not too as i wanted to move on...
but i've realised shez...
well the point of this site seems to help only in the approach...
Now i'm in a dilemna where i got the girl... we broke up for no reason... and i wanna deal with it in a DJ way to get her back...
Amongst all the women approached and been with thanks to sosuave.com.... here is one i wanna...
broke up after an awesome 1 yr relation.... for no reason... maybe needed space as we spent too much time together..
she tried callin after a few days... i asked her not to... as i was tryin to move on...
very strong headed woman... might never call again...
strategy to get her bk ??
Hey pppl..
Been a avid reader at sosuave.com for a number of years and finally decided to post on the discussion forums....
Well i've been dating this 9/10 woman for the last 6 months... had the most satisfying of relationships... - she was single for 2 yrs before we started dating.. she...
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