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    keeping the dj mindset

    Sometimes I have a hard time keeping perspective on things. I had some major self-esteem issues in the past but I believe I have worked through most of these. I also had kinda a dysfunctional family life growing up. Even after I grew up, I feel very awkward around my parents or any family member...
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    applied for the same job as friend

    we actually chatted about it alittle, and we both said 'no hard feelings' either way, but i'm not sure if he really meant it, b/c i think he thought he had it in the bag.
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    applied for the same job as friend

    my supervisor encouraged me to apply for it.
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    applied for the same job as friend

    A friend and I recently applied for the same job. We both currently work for the same organization, but the job is for a higher position. I ended up getting the job, but now I feel bad, like I shouldn’t have applied or something since he did first and was expecting to get it. When I applied I...
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    Graduating from college..

    thanks for the replies. I'll have a B.S. in information science and technology.. so computers. The job is working for the computer department at the college so the other plus is I'll get health insurance since i'll be working for the state.
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    Graduating from college..

    I’m graduating from college this summer and I had originally planned on moving to a bigger city, but a pretty decent job came up in town. The town is about 5000 people. I have lived in small towns my whole life and was looking forward to moving to a bigger city. I know I should take the job and...
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    when other guys get in your face

    i go to a small college and i've never really had trouble with this before but there is this one guy who gets really pissed off whenever i talk to a girl he knows. not going out with or anything, just knows her. for example at the bar he was sitting with 2 girls talking with them and i go up to...
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    friend always bragging about his sexual conquests

    yea it helped, i tend to always focus on the negative shyt even tho there is usually 10 times more better things going for me.
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    friend always bragging about his sexual conquests

    i post here b/c i can't talk to any of my friends about this shyt and i'm trying to keep my head up. seems like every time i feel like i'm doin good some bs comes along and i let myself slip into negative thinking.
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    friend always bragging about his sexual conquests

    a friend i have is always talking about how much ass he gets. he talks about how he has had 8 girls and a 3 some already and its only the 3rd week of college. now granted i know if you're good you can get some women but this dood is getting old. he claims he has gotten every woman he has tried...
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    other people put you down

    i was at a party tonight and was talking with people. i was talking with this one girl for awhile then i come to find out she has a boyfriend there with her. i wasn't really hitting on her or anything, just talking. anyway i meet her boyfriend when i am talking with her and he automatically...
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    being intimidated

    acutally up until 11th grade in high school i was. and it kinda snowballed on itself. i still get the feeling sometimes that i got in 8th grade when the seniors would pick on me. sounds stupid, i don't feel that way all the time, but every now and then it will hit me.
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    being intimidated

    i'll have a good day and feel pretty good about my day and how i did with women. but then i'll go hang out with one of my friends who is fukkin 3 different girls at the same time and has a girlfriend back home, and has girls he met at some seminar back in high school calling him nightly. when...
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    need to vent

    I found this site towards the end of last school year. I spent my time over the summer getting in better shape, paying off debt, and reading through the site. I'm 22 and a senior in college. I was pumped and ready for school to start, feeling more confident than i ever have before. I lost 15...
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    women and their male "friends"

    i think he would be with her if he was given the chance, but i don't understand why he just hangs around and puts himselft through it
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    women and their male "friends"

    what is everyone's opinion on women and having male "friends"? At first agreed with the people that said nothing good can come of it and there were probably some other motives involved but then i got to thinking I have a good friend who is friends with a pretty good looking girl. They have been...
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    The Reason You Joined This Site: What Was Her Name?

    **warning truely a sad story** last year in college i met a girl. we hung out for a couple of weeks. then one weekend she got drunk and confessed to me how much she liked me but she was engaged to another guy. she told me it was pretty much over with him though and he knew it. i was a virgin up...
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    my friend has a hot friend.....

    here is my situation. I have a good friend that has a lady friend that is pretty hot. he has known her for several years and even admits that he doesn't have a chance with her and they are just friends. I have been getting 'buying signals' from her. but i keep my distance because i value the...
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