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To put it simply. The unknown. You never know when life is going to thrust you into a situation that is incredibly challenging. That challenge may be strength based, speed based, endurance based, or mentality based. However, attaining and keeping a healthy body build's discipline in all...

it does suck when your getting over that attachment, but unless you want to keep repeating the process you need to come to terms with what your feeling. Personally I used the good old fashioned "F&%# it!" and just hung out with some friends, and did things I wanted to do. I got things moving...

No one can answer that one but yourself. If you feel the need to go after other women so be it. If you feel like taking some time off from all the noise and just focus on yourself that's your choice as well. Personally I wouldn't pursue another woman if it wasn't what I really wanted to do.

It depends... If you have a problem with speaking to quietly, hushing over your words, and not projecting your voice very well then yes it will help (if your concious of the problem, and want to change those issues). If that's not the case then it's not going to do anything but teach you how...

BPD isn't easy to deal with from either side of the equation. I have an X that has it, and some of the bs you went through is similar. All in all though there really isn't anything you can do but tell her to get help, and tell her to possibly get on something to straighten out her brain...

Always. My father was the same way. Guess that's where I got it from.

For common occurrences I agree with you Pua, but when things are a little more apparent, and the girl seems a freaked out by it and doesn't know what to do(like the girl mentioned in the article) I tend to step in. 95% of the time with a thank you afterward. As for being "captain save a...

If a mod asks me to repost I will. As for just waiting till someone asks... I can not do that. If I see something wrong happening I fix it. Especially when it's blatantly wrong.

What would you do to help a girl out that was in this situation? For point of reference this happened in Japan. and the guys were all American from what I gather from the article. "Around 4 AM, some dudes were in a little cluster, all looking like ALI G. I assumed they were gay until they...

I have a kubotan on my keys. That works pretty well when you know how to use it. Even if you don't its still pretty effective as an eye gauger, fist brace, or even just to smack someone with while your holding on to your keys... or vice versa Aside from that there are always these options as...

Last born. 2 Older sisters.

It's an explination about the disorder, but it helps both parties involved. Those with BPD, and those people who know people with BPD. In either situation information is the most powerful tool. "Life at the Border" by Leland M.Heller, M.D. was written in 91, and has a lot of great...

Don't give into what she expects you to do (aka don't be those other guys). That always brought them down a notch for me. Once the girl realizes your interested, but not impressed... the ego tends to disappear/diminish.

Your right, the supplement in and of itself wouldn't have a large effect on an average person. However a person with a pre-existing chemical imbalance will feel better or worse in many cases by simply giving the body what it needs to produce what the brain requires. So if she showed...

Diet is really important in every sense. Though that does show that it sounds a lot like a chemical imbalance that's effecting her. A definite plus since that being balanced out it makes taking on the disorder much easier.

Forgot to add.. The book should help you to understand things enough that talking to her about the disorder, and treatment should be a smidge easier. It defiantly won't be easy for her to deal with if she has no prior knowledge of the disorder though. Honestly she will probably be quite insulted...

BPD is an interesting disorder, and there are many different levels of it. It can go from weak to incredibly severe. Cognitive behavioral therapy is pretty successful with it, but thats something only a therapist should talk with her about. Honestly she needs to see a therapist. That's my number...

Could be a pore reaction to sweat, irritation from friction, allergic reaction to a chemical in something you were wearing (or the detergent you use to wash clothes), or if you shave it could just be razor burn. Damn near anything. If the problem continues get it checked out to ease your mind.

Thinking about the fact that your just a fun toy to play with while she is screwing over her boyfriend behind his back (and would in turn do that to you if you were with her) would be a start to breaking attachment in my head. Character is important to me though. I would have a lack of respect...

A lot of factors go into a threesome. Unless your into swinger culture (which is still not a sure thing) it's a hit or miss situation at best. In your situation I would probably just have fun with the situation (if you get them out together), and see where things go. You never know what can...