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Hopefully this is the end of the saga, I asked to switch teams and it was granted, I feel so much happier and around better people and the work I am doing now is more challenging, I was getting stale and sick to death of this childish little girl's games. She didn't look happy when it was...

I have yannick43, I ignore her but I am polite and civil when I have to be, only interact with her about business things but she still seems hellbent on letting it known that she is pissed/annoyed/angry at me. I see pouting, I see a lot of looks and I get coldness and moodiness and she has been...

Just a quick update, I completely ignore her, like I say nothing to her and avoid eye contact but the amount of things she does to get my attention is just beyond pathetic, she now starts coming through a different door (which is behind my desk), she has started getting Friendly with a girl that...

Even being "Friends" with a co-worker can get really messy, I wouldn't say that we dated but we had lunch a few times and went out for drinks/movies with other coworkers a lot, anyway a lot of things have led to a lot of drama and this is what I have to deal with now...

Cheers man, so what is with all of the cutting off communication bull****?, what does she gain by that?, did she want to back me into a corner and hold that power over me?, I have seen her walk my past desk with her head down now, I still have no idea why she went to the Boss about me, that was...

That might be the case, I don't really know, I'm not cheating on my Wife, I just want this ***** to quit all of this drama and to be civil with me at my workplace.

I would say that you are right, I said good morning to her and got coldy ignored lol, then I saw her look 4-5 times in the corner of my eye and I have noticed a pattern with her, if I talk to another Female coworker, she starts this annoying whistling thing, at first I thought that it was just...

Thanks man, well for someone that told her a long time ago that I was married and I had never come onto her, I think that would prove that she has instigated the problem?

:up: This, I haven't even slept with a co-worker yet I am having very messy issues with her but I think she got the wrong idea or is into me, never the less it has made things uncomfortable and awkward.

I couldn't care less.

This Girl at work just does my damn head in, I ignore her (and have done for a while) but I still see her walking past my desk and looking at me (often at the same time of day when I am chatting with other Female co-workers) but here is where I just don't know how to act around her anymore, a...

Will do, yeah I really don't understand, I have never done anything with her, never kissed her nothing and she just seems hell bent on punishing me for whatever she deems I have or haven't done, pretty sure that she doesn't know how to deal with her emotions and is projecting all her **** onto me.

Great and now her Friends are acting all odd and distant towards me, how can I talk to this ***** to get her to stop all of this bull****?, I am not leaving my job but she needs to grow some damn balls and stop acting like a child. How do I act around her now?, I just want to scream at her.

This is the final message I will post on this topic and I thank you all again for your great advice and insight, as it stands, I don't talk to her and just act like she isn't there, oddly she always seems to be around and I see her look at me a lot (in the corner of my eye) and I am pretty sure...

Awesome and thank you all for finally waking me up, I wouldn't;t say she is an obsession, just a bundle of unnecessary confusion that was in my head way too much. Yeah she hates being ignored and has mentioned that a couple of times, I don't think she knows the real World yet, she is 21 and...

I really don't know, I don't even like her, she annoys me greatly, she is a boring dresser, has a boring hairstyle, has an annoying voice (and she can talk a lot during the day mainly about superficial things) and loud laugh and is an attention seeker, a gossiper and a drama Queen, I have also...

Don't do something you might later regret, remember why you married her.

:mad: OK this same confusing, annoying, drama Queen coworker who I have tried being civil with lately (from this thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223120 is pissy at me again and I am baffled as to why... Just when I think we are back on speaking terms and we are emailing...

:rockon: perfect advice, I have been dealing with the same BS but I don't give her the time of the day (although I do notice that she is around me a lot, even when I don't talk or acknowledge her!) but yep keep it purely professional is the best answer. :cheer:

Thanks man, yep you are totally right, I'm already knee deep in the drama but I'm sick of her, her childish gossiping, constant attention seeking, annoying and loud laugh and voice and boring style of dress have turned me right off her, I'm not enjoying working with her but I just completely...