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One word that is not in this post that I think should be is... MYSTERY ...if you bear all early on then your value goes down, the mystery is part of the romance and the necessary soft lighting

Thanks Plutoman, next time I'll do so. I kind of thought she might like me a little bit and you're right, if there is hesitation she may let me in and then afterwards see me differently sexually AND as someone she gets on with.

Right, online lady No16... 33, prettier in life than online, hb7.5 We meet for a drink and she laughs so hard she looks like she's gonna pee herself pretty much ALL the time. Three & half hours in and she says it's about that time of evening and she had better get going. I must admit I did get...

I hear ya sir, good reality check.

I'll get there, watch out for my next few posts! I made a post a week ago about some girl who 'just wanted to be friends', I missed her text today inviting me out!!! lol, what kind of a girl wants to be friends on valentines day! Gonna take care checking messages from now on!

Count me in sir! I reckon I've got about 10 numbers off cold approaching girls in my entire life so this could be interesting!!!

Cheers CloudSurfer, yup, I think also just putting my arm round her was a little bit afc maybe, I could have just given her a back massage or gone for the kiss, but hey, as I said, I'm glad I made the move! How do you usually make your move if you're unsure whether they are interested? Girls...

Right not sure how to do these 'lay' reports but this is my first attempt. I'm assuming that 'lay' reports include fluffs and times we mess up (if the past is something to go by then there may be a theme and this may become a comedy piece; I keep fluffing and I need to stop wasting mine and...

You say 'push with them', do mean mean make a move? Or just push as far as you can, touch, smile, joke etc. On both occasions I felt like I should have touched them, a nice strong hand to calm them. Yeah, teasing is good, I should do more of that for sure.

Also, the main thing is that I should try to be more relaxed and open myself. If anything is obvious and I'm thinking about it then I should point it out in a nice and respectful way.

That's nice and simple, I like it, proper Don Juan :-)

F*ck you! Excuse my behaviour, I have a condition! Ha, only joking, sorry Mr, thanks for your interest. Elaboration... Online date hookup No1 It was difficult to gauge her first reactions but she seemed happy at my appearance, but just starts to talk so quickly, she then starts talking...

I've had a couple of dates recently where the girl has got nervous and is not cool, calm and relaxed. Just wondered what you guys thought how best to make them feel a bit more relaxed. Me, so far they start to talk more and more and then I go quiet and nothings happens!

I'm single, 36, trying to make my own start up IT project a reality, own my own pad and I live in a city where I don't have many close friends. Two years ago I was single and I had an awesome place, was earning £100k per year and lived in a city I loved and where many of my oldest and closest...

Thanks for your wisdom. I agree with everything you say. I think anything I will do will now just come across as desperate (because I'd have to be desperate). She will, from now on, be at the back of my mind where she belongs.

We met up (online date) and we got on really well. I was cool, funny etc but I forgot to be alpha (naturally I am THE nice guy until I get them undressed and am then super alpha!, I am beginning to learn). I got a text the morning afterwards saying she had a really nice time, thinks i'm...