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everything just seemed wrong to me. none of it made any sense. i needed to calm my own mind so i went against your advice and went to see her today. now before you get on my case about anything, i've been replaying the night over and over in my head (im a perfectionist, and i new at this, sue...

you're right, thing is i just want to know wtf is going on. like id feel a thousand times better if she just told me straight up she didnt want to go any further with me rather than leaving me clueless. i've just got those what ifs rolling around in my head like "what if she doesnt have her...

i actually saw her at her job a couple of days ago. no i didnt go to see her, i was really there to get something and didnt even know she would be there. i didnt say anything to her and i know for a fact that she didnt see me, should i have just said something to her? my only reasoning for not...

stop trying to come off as a hardass for a sec and take notice why i mentioned that. you said maybe the date didnt go as well as i thought it did, i said she kissed me as a way of saying that doesnt seem to be the case. no i do not know whats going on but i really only posted this as a way to...

she kissed ME

i always liked the 3 strikes and you're out rule. that is 3 calls and no answer = move on. im just confused here. date went well dropped her off and got a kiss told her id call and she says "yea call me" and now she doesnt return calls. just doesnt make sense

we go to different schools. i called her once yesterday and once today. after she didnt answer i just sent a little text message telling her to call me when she wasnt busy. i plan to call one more time this weekend

i went on a date with one a girl i've been talking to lately. everything went well and i even got a kiss at the end of the date. now, a few days later, she wont return my calls. could she have lost interest that fast?

technically my first approach was via my job (i work at walmart) i saw this pretty attractive girl who looked like she was lost so i walked up and asked if she needed help with anything. she was just looking around but when i went to walk away she quickly called me back just to chat it up a...

do that it works:up:

syl all that extra body weight isnt good for cross country.

would anyone show this site to their sister as a way to disarm other djs and their tactics?

thats CREEPY. what would YOU think about someone who you've never spoken to sitting next to you and "playing with your body"?

why does everyone keep saying that. i use the phone like i use aim, to talk to someone and get to know them a bit. honestly at my age rarely does anyone go out with a complete stranger. regardless, i did not mention my intentions with the phone calls. its just not gonna work out if i try just...

its normal. no one person is perfectly symmetrical.

these are girls i just met recently. im talking with them on the phone to build comfort between us. take last night for example, girl calls me late at night and we chit chat for a few mins then theres a pause and i end up looking for something to say. cant just bail out whenever i have nothing...

lately i've been talking on the phone a lot with different girls but i run into the same problem with them all. we carry on conversations well but it slows down at points even to nothing at times. there will just be this awkward silence where i just dont know what to say and i can tell they're...

why so quick to make a fast exit? for all you know she knows your name. i've had class with tons of girls that i never spoke to yet they knew my name and if i said hello they'd say hello back. trust me when i say this, things will NEVER go as planned. the day you decide to wait by the...

i was thinking this exact thing in the shower last night. creepy but yea i agree with your bottom line. if you cant be yourself in the beginning then you are destined for failure since the relationship is based on a lie.

dont you think its too soon to be calling her again? i just asked her last night and if someone called me the next day id start to feel like im being hounded. i dont think i was giving her power. everyone has things to do. i dont really like the idea of giving her the ultimatum of dropping her...